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What did your spouses affair do to you?

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redbaron007 ( member #50144) posted at 8:15 AM on Friday, September 16th, 2016

1) Made me jealous. I was never the jealous type and I now find myself triggering at certain things. As an example, my wife and I were at a wedding a few weeks back and I was being especially glum. When she and I danced she was somewhat closed off and self-conscious, to the point of not even really trying to dance with me -- I was also not at my best and was just going through the motions, which sucks because I usually have a lot of fun dancing at weddings. That put me off for the rest of the night. Later, my wife danced with an older guy at our table whose wife didn't want to dance and she looked like she was having at lot more fun dancing with him. I was also probably a bit more affected by this due to the fact that OM was a good deal older than my wife.

Not to T/J, but this is so sad...on so many levels!

[This message edited by redbaron007 at 2:15 AM, September 16th (Friday)]

Me: BS (44)
She: WS (41)
One son (6)
DDay: May 2015 (OBS told me)
Divorced, Zero regrets, sound sleep, son doing great!
A FOG is just a weather phenomenon. An Affair Fog is a clever excuse invented by WS's to explain their continued bad behavior.

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