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While waiting for the karma bus to run over my WH and his AP, I'd enjoy reading what happened with yours! Please share!

My 32 year old WH broke out with Shingles during his A due to the stress OW put him under over continuing the A.

OW and her family fell so far behind in their rent that they got evicted from their home. She was forced to live with her BH's parents whom hated the sight of her for betraying their son!

Karma hit them both pretty hard in the ass!

I hope your WS an AP get their karma real soon!

I can't believe they actually let her live under their roof. Dear Lord.

WH's AP life is shit. She is not healthy. And her husband cheats on her. I should be happy, but I'm not. I want something terrible to happen to her. She earns more than me. I wish she didn't.

My wife lost the house and kids to me.

She also lost the respect of her kids and immediate family.

Her AP lost his wife and kids.

The AP, after a year, hung himself after sliding into depression.

I feel bad for the poor guy now...........

Told this one elsewhere: Client story: A betrayed husband married the OMW. They met because of their respective spouses affair. The WW and the OM were long over when my client married the other man's wife. The WW had the nerve to show up at the church on the wedding day, and my client spotted her. He made sure to thank her in his speech for making it possible for him to meet the love of his life.

Another cheater I had the misfortune of being with (not one of the 2 serial cheaters I primarily post about) was involved with an OW who honestly thought she would have her happily ever after with my cheater after I left him.

Seems about a year later, she was crying the blues on her Facebook page about being alone because her 'boyfriend' had done nothing but cheat on her.

Idiot. Gotta love these fools who are STUPID enough to get involved with married or committed people then act all shocked when the cheater cheats on THEM. I mean, how stupid can you really be??

OP, as much as I love this topic I think it's healthy for you to also be prepared in the eventuality of karma never happening, or worse, they have great karma together. I don't know your situation but in my own, me exW and her AP are married happily ever after for almost 10 years now. I've seen her on FB through our DD's timeline and she looks very happy.

Sometimes karma doesn't happen. That's just how it is.

Now...back to the karma bus stories, I love them.

OW left her exBH of 15 years, DD-14 & step son -17, gave up her home, moved to the town my fwh worked to make it easier to meet him and easier for him to leave me, because she deserved happiness with my fwh.

My fwh rejected her and decided to work on our marriage, she begged her exBH to take her back and he rejected her since this isn't the first time she's cheated and he was done, their divorce was finalized on Valentine's day, she then tried hitting up her 1st ex husband, who she also cheated on, and he rejected her. Her daughter goes to see her every other weekend, but usually ends up staying at a friends house instead since her DD doesn't really want to talk to her either. Her daughter call me OM - other mom, since I'm there for her more than her mother ever was. Her already bad skin is really terrible now. She looks like a meth addict, and I just found out yesterday she's still crying over all of this because she wound up on her ass alone.

Added: I forgot this but reading another karma story reminded me...OW spent $30,000.00 (money her mother willed to her when she died a few years back) setting up her love nest in preparation my fwh was going to join her. Now she barely has enough to make rent since she now has to pay half her exBH's house payment and child support.

[This message edited by doigoordoistay at 3:04 PM, March 23rd (Thursday)]

OW's husband cheated on her.

For awhile, she would post on fb about how when glass is broken, even when you try to piece it back together, it's never the same.

I despise infidelity, but I was

when it happened to her.

Taxi-

Told this one elsewhere: Client story: A betrayed husband married the OMW. They met because of their respective spouses affair. The WW and the OM were long over when my client married the other man's wife. The WW had the nerve to show up at the church on the wedding day, and my client spotted her. He made sure to thank her in his speech for making it possible for him to meet the love of his life.

That's almost the exact story of my uncle and his third wife, who was the BW of the OM. They were on a cruise and they sat down to have dinner and his 2nd wife and her husband respectively got up to go do something. The two of them eventually got suspicious and walked in on both of them during the act. They've been married almost 20 years now.

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The closest Karma story I have right now is COW trying to convince one of H's coworkers to join her side after exposing the A to him. He was disgusted and she lost a friend.

Greatest karma story of all time:

There was a local real estate agent near where I used to live. He was married with three kids. One day comes home and announces he's leaving his wife/mother of his kids, for her best friend. The best friend also leaves her husband.

The two devastated, rejected spouses start getting together to commiserate on their shared misery. Fall in love.

The divorce isn't final but the real estate agent takes his "fiancé" skiing. He dies in an avalanche before the marriage settlement is reached and is officially divorced. His STBXW/BS inherits everything. She marries the OBS. The OW... who knows. Who cares.

Karma. She can be such a bitch.

I'm happy to report that the OW's husband cheats on her and is now divorcing her. We ran into her at a charity event and she looked like SHIT I believe that Karma is making her look on the outside what is reflected from within....ugliness!

The Karma bus (which some people simply refer to as consequences of bad choices) keeps backing up and running over my ex repeatedly. Much to my morbid entertainment.

Some of the highlights:

When I kicked him out he immediately moved in with last OW and their demon spawn OC. Then they moved to another state. "Happy family" lasted about six months. Long enough for our divorce to be finalized. OW set ex up one day for a typical business as usual day - the morning ILYs, kiss goodbye, chatting during the day about dinner, etc. When ex got home from work he found OW had been gathering up things from the house to leave him and she was gone, with the OC. She was gone by the time he got home that night. She moved 2,400 miles away and proceeded to slap a paternity suit on him for CS. Ex was devastated from all her lies and deception. Go figure.

Ex moved back to my state (unfortunately). He hasn't been able to hold a job and has been officially blacklisted from government jobs in this state (he was career law enforcement). He can't even get Walmart to hire him (yes, he tried).

He has been sued three times by debt collectors, and they have prevailed with default judgments against him. This was for his portion of the marital debt (tens of thousands). I took more debt in the settlement and I've already paid it off. Now the debt collectors hound him at every turn, and his tanked credit is one of the reasons he can't get a job (from those companies that check credit history). He is completely financially irresponsible...and broke.

He recently got rear-ended in a vehicle crash. The other driver had no insurance. His prized truck now has transmission issues and the insurance company wants to just total it, meaning paying out much less than the cost of repairs. But then they will require him to sign over title to the truck, which he doesn't want to do. It's his baby. But he can't afford repairs either and is afraid to drive it anywhere. This was the only thing of value he had left and he is devastated.

His other prized possession? His firearm collection, which he was adamant about getting in the divorce. Guess who has them now? Yep. Me. He sold them to me for pennies on the dollar because he was desperate for money to pay his rent.

So he now has nothing, and I mean nothing. Not even our kids. They lost all respect for him and want nothing to do with him. Youngest DD got married last summer. He was told months after the fact. Oldest DD is getting married this summer in the Caribbean. Her father is not invited and doesn't even know about it. DD is deciding whether she even tells him at all, ever, because he hates her fiancé (and doesn't even know it is her fiancé).

Oh, and his health is on the decline, too...

Vroom, vroom....

Keep in mind that sometimes Karma (consequences) happens behind the scenes and you may never get the pleasure of seeing it. Doesn't mean it doesn't happen though!

[This message edited by Phoenix1 at 1:38 PM, March 23rd (Thursday)]

I don't wish bad karma on my H since he's still here in R with me. He has to live with what he did and the stress has not been kind to him.

However...the OW we call Hagrid got a divine message from above. About 2 years after the A she completed her ordination process that she put on hold to screw my H and was ordained at her denomination's yearly district convocation. At nearly the exact time she was being ordained, a large tree fell on her house, right on top of her bedroom. It was a sunny day with no wind and I took it as a sign from above. Beep. Friends posted pics of her standing in her yard in her new frock, collar, and stole, looking bewildered and upset when she came home for her celebratory party with a tree through the roof.

I found out, through a very strange and odd connection, that OW/Wifetress has cheated on XH at least once.

Also, both XH and Wifetress have been arrested since DDay. Twice for the Wifetress.

They're in debt up to their eyeballs and Wifetress just recently lost her job, due to being arrested.

They seem pretty miserable. XH has put on weight and looks a mess at child exchanges. Though I try not to look at him.

I'm sure there are plenty of things I don't know about. I know that some people never see karma in action. In some ways, I'm glad to know that life did not turn out how XH thought it would, but in other ways it has made me terribly sad to watch his poor choices and know how much those choices have impacted our kids.

Oh I have one

BEEP BEEP!!!

WW has her oldest DS catch her in her affair.

WW does not end affair and toxic household environment ensues.

WW's youngest DS commits suicide while toxic environment is going on. Suicide is very public.

WW's "friends" that introduced WW to her AP and let them carry out the A at their houses slowly distance themselves from WW.

WW's BH starts an affair of his own with his secretary and they become madhatters.

WW's now MH divorces WW and marries his AP.

All of WW's "friends" who were involved in the A were then gone by this point.

WW's sister got breast cancer and died a slow painful death. WW's sister enabled the A by letting it happen at her house and would go out on dates with her boyfriend, WW, and her AP.

WW's AP came down with Leukemia and died a slow horrible death.

WW's oldest son who discovered the A and continued to catch his mother in the A over the next few years has gone completely NC with WW.

WW is now completely alone and has no one left.

I am the oldest DS.

yop

Ahhh I wish that I had a story to tell. The only thing I have is that the OW is switching jobs. She worked with me and my WH. I have wanted to send a message to her son on facebook to tell him what a horrible mother he has, but have yet to do so.

I dont think I will ever know if the karma bus hits her since we have no mutual friends and I wont see her again (hopefully) after she leaves the company next week, but I sure hope it does.

We do live about 15min apart from each other and If I see her out in public, I may be the karma bus that hits her.

First AP died natural causes

Second AP died natural cause

Third AP currently under investigation for embezzlement. May face years in jail if true.

..OM..former bff for 25 years.

-married to his second wife for only 2 years when I outed him.

-learned first hand from his father that she treated him like shit for the duration of his marriage, never forgave him. He came down with a life-ending brain tumour at 57. Slowly deteriorated..couldn't continue his law practice..all sorts of shit fucked up his physical and mental abilities.. eye sight,confined to wheel chair.. constant ringing in his head, lost bowel and bladder control..

..he spent a fortune looking for a cure in Hong Kong and other locations, to no avail.

He had two sons with his BW, probably a deal with her to keep her from divorcing him. He always told me he couldn't stand kids and never wanted them. Didn't have any with his first wife of 10 years. She remarried and had three!!

I maintain that his tumour was a result of a guilt ridden conscience for all those years he betrayed me and his two wives.

This karma bus bloody well killed him in what should have been the prime of his life and career. He lost everything, including seeing his sons grow up, marry, grandchildren.. everything!

smy