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I did tell her husband. And I sent him copies of the naked pictures that she sent to my husband so he would have evidence to confront her with. The last time I spoke to him it was obvious that she had him convinced that it was only pictures and nothing more. I told him that they had been having sex off and on over a two year period. I haven’t heard from him since then. If he asked for details I would give them to him, but he hasn’t asked. He is at the very beginning of this process, so I assume he’s getting his fair share of trickle truth, gaslighting and blame-shifting. I feel bad for him, but until he asks for my help I’m staying out of it. I have enough to worry about right here in my own house.

And furthermore . . . if I’m being totally honest here . . . even though I fear the judgement that might come with it . . . the other reason that I hate her so much and I’m so filled with rage whenever I think about her . . . good old-fashioned jealousy.

That’s right, I’m jealous. She touched MY HUSBAND. She kissed MY HUSBAND. She put her body on MY HUSBAND. And thinking about it is driving me insane!

She touched MY HUSBAND. She kissed MY HUSBAND. She put her body on MY HUSBAND. And thinking about it is driving me insane!

It's such an awful and painful feeling. And, for me, it came back again and again. If I was able to not think about the affair for a few minutes, it would come roaring back again - "It really happened. He really did this to me. He really did these things with her."

I'm so sorry. It does get better, it just takes time.

Take care.