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hopefulkate ( member #47752) posted at 3:38 PM on Tuesday, September 12th, 2017
This could also be a result of sexual abuse in childhood from female caretakers.
It IS normal for some people, so let's take that judgment out. So much happens to the brain....
Now, is it something you can live with? If so...whatever it's your house, have fun! 
If it's not, then that is ok too!
I would absolutely bring it up, but in a supportive way. You don't know the root of this issue, so being calm and nurturing will likely get you the answer you want (truth) and not just any answer to appease you and calm the situation down.
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 9:17 PM on Tuesday, September 12th, 2017
This is the guy how called you a bag, while you were fighting for your life with cancer, correct? Frankly, I wouldn't give a fig for his feelings, and I'd lock my stuff up before I let him ruin it with his fantasies or filth. If he wants/needs to cross-dress, he can make space in one of his clothing drawers and get his own stuff.
And here is the link to the first time this occurred:
https://www.survivinginfidelity.com/text.forums.asp?tid602155&ap1#message7818281
I found it by clicking onto your PROFILE, then going to your "Recent Posts," then clicking on the last one and working my way backwards. Hope this helps!
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
CincyKid ( member #57948) posted at 9:24 PM on Tuesday, September 12th, 2017
Betrayed, life over...
Life goes on...
Met sunshine girl, fell in love...
Reconnected with wonderful DD...
Married sunshine girl, happy as can be!!!
4kids ( member #57436) posted at 10:38 PM on Tuesday, September 12th, 2017
It would likely help if posters could remember that there were Google searches made by this wayward that centered around transgenderedism. It's not just about wearing her underwear to bed.
(((Hugs)))
dreamlife ( member #8142) posted at 2:33 AM on Wednesday, September 13th, 2017
My now deceased ex was bipolar and had a multitude of FETISHES.
(((huge hugs)))
~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
"He called me a bitch.
I called him an ambulance."
Linda H.)
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