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WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 6:50 PM on Wednesday, May 23rd, 2018
As a BS, I can say that your comment about not expecting his love as it was before, but expecting to have to / to want to earn it from the ground up...
That would be very meaningful to me.
Good luck to you both!
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
Jorge ( member #61424) posted at 6:07 AM on Thursday, May 24th, 2018
You aren't able to see it now because of what you're going through, but one day when you look back, you will see strength, courage, humility and conviction that your're currently drawing on. Reconciliation may or may not come to fruition, but I'm willing to bet you have re-earned your husband's respect and hopefully you can soon respect yourself once again.
I'm not sure you're there yet, and that's understandable. Nonetheless, beneath the cloak of your infidelity, lies a person with convictions and strength you may not have known existed in you. Please try to remember this and continue on this path. You are a changed woman and you're to be deeply commended for that. Your change will benefit you regardless of the outcome of your marriage.
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