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Satine (original poster member #60463) posted at 8:54 PM on Thursday, March 15th, 2018
I checked the guidelines and I don't think there is anything against what I'm about to do... (mods please feel free to tell me off if I break any rules).
I have a challenge for you all - post how the experience of infidelity transformed you as a person. In memes. A series of memes or just one is fine. I chose to use several. I chose to be humorous but serious memes are also acceptable. And I'm ok with fWS's posting in this!
And most importantly, explain your meme! For example, it sounds silly but I really do identify with this character. I try really hard to be kind and fair but I totally got blindsided with betrayal (I'm obvs a BS). See if you can pinpoint me before the affair, during it, after it, etc. I think I've come a long way in my recovery but I know there's so much more to go. But my current state is that I am tired of being angry. Which is why my last meme is what it is.
Strong language seems to be acceptable on SI, but obviously don't post any other offensive images like nudity or racism.
Here's mine:
worldisupsidedow ( member #54560) posted at 9:06 PM on Thursday, March 15th, 2018
Sorry, couldn't get this to work correctly from my phone. Meme is Samuel Jackson's stare.....y'all know the look!
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Satine (original poster member #60463) posted at 9:44 PM on Thursday, March 15th, 2018
This one? (There are so many!) And tell us why!
DevastatedDee ( member #59873) posted at 9:54 PM on Thursday, March 15th, 2018
DDay: 06/07/2017
MH - RA on DDay.
Divorced a serial cheater (prostitutes and lord only knows who and what else).
skins21 ( member #61643) posted at 10:03 PM on Thursday, March 15th, 2018
ME: BS 36
WW 35
EA/PA for 3.5 years
DD 1/26/17
Together for 13 years, married for 6
Divorcing after the house sells.
worldisupsidedow ( member #54560) posted at 10:20 PM on Thursday, March 15th, 2018
Satine that one will work! Lol
Originally I was thinking the one where his eyes are all bugged out from black snake moan.
The why: it's like the infidelity 30 yard stare for me. It's full of anger, lack of trust, shows a strong bull sh!t meter running, and it's also a dare to "mess with me one more time".
Clearly, I'm ready for him to "sh!t or get off of the pot". He's already had a second chance many years ago and I'm skeptical of a third. I need him to show me he wants me and only me before I go all in and completely drop my defenses.
worldisupsidedow ( member #54560) posted at 10:22 PM on Thursday, March 15th, 2018
Skins 21 - a Taurus here. I comsererate with your meme.
Satine (original poster member #60463) posted at 11:03 PM on Thursday, March 15th, 2018
These are great! Worldisupsidedow, I totally get that and the look is perfect.
Dee!!! 
I needed those. But I really love how yours end with the tiger.
Keep them coming!
bookworm19 ( member #54871) posted at 11:15 PM on Thursday, March 15th, 2018
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English is not my language, sorry for mistakes and funny words...
hopefulkate ( member #47752) posted at 1:32 AM on Friday, March 16th, 2018
Dee!!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yes. So. Much. Yes.
Aftershockgoldfish ( member #59220) posted at 1:47 AM on Friday, March 16th, 2018
Satine, great idea!
DevastatedDee, you just had me laughing awkwardly to myself on the bus. Thank you! 🐺🐯
Me: 30s, BW
Her: 30s, WW (FearfulAvoidance)
Together since 2006
Married since 2013
DDay 1: 11/18/16
Underground until: 03/26/17
Her OEA: 10/16-Late April? 2017
N/C since 06/17
R offered: 10/17
Last piece of new info: 9/26
DevastatedDee ( member #59873) posted at 2:22 PM on Friday, March 16th, 2018
Hee hee, thanks! This thread was a great idea!
DDay: 06/07/2017
MH - RA on DDay.
Divorced a serial cheater (prostitutes and lord only knows who and what else).
sunwillshine ( member #47200) posted at 4:24 PM on Friday, March 16th, 2018
I can't get it to work either, but it is when the yellow minion is given the purple serum and is the purple minion. BLAH
D-day 2/12/15
5 DD (3 his, 2 mine) all grown
married 9/97 together 8/94.
Moved back in 5/30/16 working on R
Satine (original poster member #60463) posted at 4:43 PM on Friday, March 16th, 2018
Haha! Sunwillshine:
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Papillon ( new member #62955) posted at 9:06 PM on Friday, March 16th, 2018
Dee, the cats! So purrfect! I think I’m still the angry one with the red eyes and pointy teeth but am working towards tiger hood.
Me:BS (59)
Lying Cheater: WH (56)
LTA, at least 4 years with OW young enough to be our child
DDay Jan 2018
Not sure what’s going on here
DevastatedDee ( member #59873) posted at 9:24 PM on Friday, March 16th, 2018
Tigerhood is my goal for sure. I slip back into the pointy-teeth one a fair bit too, lol.
DDay: 06/07/2017
MH - RA on DDay.
Divorced a serial cheater (prostitutes and lord only knows who and what else).
Syprbati ( new member #59595) posted at 12:33 AM on Saturday, March 17th, 2018
My RBF is no longer resting.
Me: BS
Husband: WS, PA & EA
OP: Slightly younger version of myself.
D-Day: April 3, 2017
Currently attempting marriage recovery.
Satine (original poster member #60463) posted at 2:24 AM on Saturday, March 17th, 2018
My RBF is no longer resting.
I'm using this line in other areas of my life from now on
Maynotbeenough ( member #59241) posted at 5:57 AM on Saturday, March 17th, 2018
Skins 21. I am a Taurus too. Find it very fitting for me
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