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TimSC ( member #58844) posted at 5:12 PM on Monday, April 16th, 2018
Write your apology. Make it heartfelt. Put everything you wish to say into the letter. Don't hold anything back. Tell your husband what you are doing.
Then burn the letter with him watching.
It is therapeutic to write it down.
But don't send it. I don't think OBS would receive it well.
nevermind ( new member #63409) posted at 5:44 PM on Monday, April 16th, 2018
I apologized to AP's husband shortly after they found out on the phone. He seemed like he was ok with it, till he started laughing at me...
Be prepaired for it NOT to go the way you would like it to go if you deside to take that leep. I presonally feel that you should just let it lie. It will bring hurt to her all over again. The fact your out of their life is enough. To her it may seem like a cry out to see if you can get back into his life. which you dont want to do. That could crush that woman even more.
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