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Pinkypeach ( member #65880) posted at 10:21 AM on Saturday, September 15th, 2018
Destroyedwife I know exactly how you feel when up I say you don't want this life, you want your old one. I have said those words to my WH and numerous other people that know too.
I hope this weekend he at least comes clean and is truthful with you when you confront him. The people on here are really good for support and advice. I am starting to consider following some after trying to bury my head in the sand. It's so hard. Hugs.
trustedg ( member #44465) posted at 3:44 PM on Saturday, September 15th, 2018
my life is over as I know it. I don’t want a new life. I want my old happy life.
You are correct, your life won't be the same, that old life is gone. But - the new life might be better!
Take care of you, get the help you need, get STD testing, etc.
Me BWHim WH DDay 12/2012Married a long time, in R
DestroyedWife80 (original poster member #66005) posted at 10:57 PM on Saturday, September 15th, 2018
He is denying 100%.
Short of catching him w his dick in someone else- I have so so so much evidence. How can he deny...
Examples- he ALWAYS answers my texts and calls. Sometimes I can’t get him on the phone for 30-40min- multiples missed calls and texts. Then it’s a lame ass excuse. When I check his phone later, there’s 4-8 calls to escorts just before the missed calls. Really mf’er!??
And I have 400 screen shots of him sexting with video, pics, FaceTime, with 5-6 regular women. Denying I exist (no girlfriend, no wife! I swear!!) and trying to pressure them to come to his hotel rooms when he’s traveling.
Ummmmm- anyone have ocean front property to sell me in Arizona- I’ll pay top dollar 
One of the hardest things to do in life is letting go of what you thought was real.
Married 4/2018
D-Day #1- 8/2018
D-Day #2- 1/2019
DD#3 October 2019
Me: 38 BW, I am broken
Him: 47 WH, sex addict/sexting/escorts: lie & deny everything! Gasl
Oftencheatedon ( member #41268) posted at 1:30 AM on Sunday, September 16th, 2018
Montana12 ( member #56778) posted at 2:09 AM on Sunday, September 16th, 2018
(((Destroyedwife)))
My heart hurts for you - you will get through this.
Do NOT let him minimize your doubts - others will have better advice on how to build your case but I just wanted you to know that there are people here who care.
BS - me 34
WS - him 36
DDay June 2016
Going??
Bestthing ( member #64028) posted at 2:59 AM on Sunday, September 16th, 2018
Destroyed,
Your WH doesn’t have the guts and decency to give you any closure, but guess what? You already have all the information you need. If he can’t admit to cheating, he is not safe. Just proceed and 180 him. Get yourself STD check and start to split up finances, etc. Hopefully he will come to the realization that your marriage is more important than his escort habit or sel image. If not, he loses you for sure.
Bestthing
Happily reconciled
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