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Do not let her sweep this under the rug or you will get hurt again.

Bad behavior continues with out consequences.

So no... you continue to bring it up, she listens and comforts you (consequences #1 for her to deal with)

Her behavior just doesn't go away...so she needs to make an appointment and finds the tools to affair proof the marriage (consequence #2 for her have to deal with)

And your old lady is correct...no more GNO...hell no more going out alone period (consequence #3). As you can see this consequences is down the list of consequences so believe me, she is not doing you any favors by thinking this is her one and only consequence.

Rule #1 bad behavior continues with out consequences.

# 2 what is she going to do to affair proof the marriage from here on out?

One last thing....If she doesn't understand why this happened then how will she prevent it from happening again?

FYI

My old lady went 5 yrs before doing it again.

I believe you are in the same boat I was in many many years ago when I let her sweep HER FIRST AFFAIR under the rug.

[This message edited by TheGuy123 at 5:26 PM, December 8th (Saturday)]

BTW

That was just mean and cruel for your old lady to make you think you were the one that needed help when all along she know it was her phucking her boyfriend that was the problem!

Again....your old lady really needs to find some real tools that will help her in making emotionally healthier choices for her and the ones she cares about!

So when are you guys going down for the STD test's?

AGAIN...ANOTHER CONSEQUENCE!...but this time she gets to share this one with you.

IMO one of the biggest consequences a cheating wife will have to face is when the betrayed husband question the father of her children.

If you really want to bring a point home with regards to the huge amount of damage she has done by cheating????? DNA test her children!

Even though we all know they will always be your kids....If for one second she thinks you doubt that and the possibility she cheated in the past... it really makes her face the destructive choices she has made by phucking around on you behind your back.

So when your old lady wants to move past this with out owning it....it just might be the time to send her to get tested for STD's while your asking your kids for DNA samples.

Consequence #4 exposing the affair to family.