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Thanksgiving2016 ( member #63462) posted at 4:25 AM on Saturday, April 18th, 2020
Glad to hear you are well. Yes the nightmares are probably a combination of the divorce finally being done and the pandemic. Those things will really get your mind into overdrive. I suspect the shelter at home orders are giving the ex a heavy dose of reality. I read divorce is what spiked in China, not babies. I wish you happiness and peace.
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Brokenheart29 ( member #51827) posted at 10:35 AM on Sunday, April 19th, 2020
Hi BrokenBride,
I’ve followed your story from afar but have been rooting for you. You are so strong and honestly it’s so lovely to see that you are coming out the other side of this horrendous journey.
I’m the same age as you. I can’t express how lucky you are not having children with your xwh. I have 2 with mine (he cheated while I was pregnant with our 2nd). My xwh is still with ow and because we are forever tied with children I get a front row seat in knowing what they are up to. They’ve just bought a house together, I’ll find out when they get engaged then married and have babies. I’m constantly stuck. It still hurts as I can’t escape it. I’d give anything to not hear what they are doing.
You are going to meet your person. You are successful and have a bright future ahead. That loser didn’t deserve someone like you. You come across so lovely and intelligent in your posts. I can’t believe he let that go. Congratulations on your divorce! And welcome to your next chapter. Take care x
Me 33, xwh POS had a pa while I was pregnant. My kids, DD 10 DS 4.They will see me through this trauma.
Dday January 2016
Divorced finally January 2017
steadychevy ( member #42608) posted at 8:03 PM on Sunday, April 19th, 2020
That loser didn’t deserve someone like you. You come across so lovely and intelligent in your posts. I can’t believe he let that go.
Proof to BrokenBride and most of us here (IMO) that it never was about her or us. It wasn't about what was or wasn't done. It was about him and ours and their baggage and issues.
BH(me)72(now); XWW 64; M 42 yrsDDay1-01/09/13;DDay2-26/10/13;DDay3-19/12/13;DDay4-21/01/14LTA-09/02-06/06? OM - COW 4 years; "dates" w/3 lovers post engagement;ONS w/stranger post commitment, lies, lies, liesSeparated 23/09/2017; D 16/03/2020
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