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Blindsided75 (original poster new member #70134) posted at 12:30 PM on Wednesday, March 27th, 2019
Thanks for the advice. The credit card debt is his alone. Our finances have always been seperate and that’s why he could hide (get away) with this for so many years. I truly believe he has been doing it for so long it was normal behaviour and he was able to come home and switch off any sign of guilt for hudwrong doing. It does amaze me how he could do that. We have now started our trial separation and I know he is hurting. But so am I . I feel a change in him already . He would normally text me romantic messages and tell me he loves me but that has changed . Not sure if it’s because he is struggling with depression or because all the romantic texts previously received were fake. 😢
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 12:55 PM on Wednesday, March 27th, 2019
(((Blindsided)))
Throw those walls back up and make you the priority, sounds like you have a good start on that.
You also need to go get STD tested, both blood work and pap. This is a very high risk group of people to be having sex w/. YOU have to put YOUR health first and foremost.
You deserve far better than this. It's up to you to demand it.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
mindfullness55 ( member #67661) posted at 8:41 PM on Thursday, March 28th, 2019
Hello, Blindsided 75;
My heart goes out to you. I’m very sorry for your situation and your pain.
I think that poster Queen below has given you the Key that you need.
Keep posting.
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