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cocoplus5nuts ( member #45796) posted at 12:49 AM on Saturday, April 6th, 2019
I never got a written timeline, but I didn't ask for one. My fch told me everything I needed to know. He answered all my questions when asked (once he was fully remorseful).
I'm not sure I understand the importance of a timeline. I don't need to exactly when everything happened. I know the time period when it occurred. I know of the times that they met privately and what happened then. I have a general idea of the things they talked about. That's all I needed.
Me(BW): 1970
WH(caveman): 1970
Married June, 2000
DDay#1 June 8, 2014 EA
DDay#2 12/05/14 confessed to sex before polygraph
Status: just living my life
Jimmy1962 ( member #59923) posted at 2:29 AM on Saturday, April 6th, 2019
I had to write the timeline myself. I asked my WW questions and I wrote the answers down. I would go over it by myself then go to her with more questions. I did a pretty good job but I am not satisfied with the details that I have. My wifes affair was 20 years ago and I recently found out. Maybe many details are lost to time.
DDay 7-20-17 Found about 10 month physical affair that my wife had back in 97 & 98
I thought that I was going to die!
Trying to reconcile.
Infidelity is to marriage as Roundup is to plants.
gmc94 ( member #62810) posted at 2:33 AM on Saturday, April 6th, 2019
I'm still waiting too.
Writing a timeline makes him feel bad. He doesn't want to do things that make him feel bad like deal with the aftereffects of his devastating actions. As you can probably guess our relationship is not going well.
Yup.
M >25yrs/grown kids
DD1 1994 ONS prostitute
DD2 2018 exGF1 10+yrEA & 10yrPA... + exGF2 EA forever & "made out" 2017
9/18 WH hung himself- died but revived
It's rude to say "I love you" with a mouthful of lies
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