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Wayward Side :
Shame/justice

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 Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 5:27 PM on Wednesday, May 8th, 2019

How do I do that?

Its repentance for long years of being a bossy brat.

I had two teens as well. Tell them anything and they would do the opposite. I had to learn to offer and wait. It's what God does with me.

Grin.

The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18

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Pippin ( member #66219) posted at 8:35 PM on Tuesday, May 14th, 2019

For VioletElle

Him: Shadowfax1

Reconciled for 6 years

Dona nobis pacem

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Pippin ( member #66219) posted at 10:15 PM on Sunday, June 16th, 2019

For Hephaestus2. I think this might help you reframe how you think.

Him: Shadowfax1

Reconciled for 6 years

Dona nobis pacem

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WalkinOnEggshelz ( member #29447) posted at 2:42 AM on Friday, December 27th, 2019

Bump

If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.

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Pippin ( member #66219) posted at 5:41 AM on Saturday, December 28th, 2019

for IAmTrash, and anyone else struggling with guilt and shame.

Him: Shadowfax1

Reconciled for 6 years

Dona nobis pacem

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Need2Do ( member #71669) posted at 1:30 AM on Sunday, December 29th, 2019

I hope its ok to post to this topic, I, too, fight the shame and guilt of who I am, and what I have done to my husband, my family, and the OW.

When you are in the thick of it, it is hard to shake free.

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 Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 9:43 PM on Monday, December 30th, 2019

it's ok! post away. :-)

The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18

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Pippin ( member #66219) posted at 8:45 PM on Thursday, January 30th, 2020

for Need2Do

Him: Shadowfax1

Reconciled for 6 years

Dona nobis pacem

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WalkinOnEggshelz ( member #29447) posted at 3:28 AM on Tuesday, May 26th, 2020

Bump

If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.

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Pippin ( member #66219) posted at 9:14 PM on Monday, June 29th, 2020

bumping before it closes

Him: Shadowfax1

Reconciled for 6 years

Dona nobis pacem

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MIgander ( member #71285) posted at 1:56 PM on Wednesday, July 8th, 2020

thanks for the bump. needed this today.

WW/BW Dday July 2019. BH/WH- multiple EA's. Denial ain't just a river in Egypt.

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Pippin ( member #66219) posted at 2:31 PM on Monday, August 10th, 2020

For TheFallen. Don't go down the seductive route of shame. It doesn't help anyone.

Him: Shadowfax1

Reconciled for 6 years

Dona nobis pacem

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