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somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 6:41 PM on Wednesday, June 26th, 2019
.. 
OMG...
..if I could only talk to you now...
I can only pray now, that you have found your peace.
My recent seizure has opened my eyes to the fragility of life and the uncertainty for all of us.
I hope you realized just how much you impacted so many of your S.I. members.. you were so 'in-tune' and wise with your advice.
If this seizure crap takes me, and I make it upstairs (???).... I'll look you up and we'll talk! 
SSSSSKKKKKAAAAANNNNN....
smy
trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think! Me 77 Her 74 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!
cancuncrushed ( member #28156) posted at 4:07 AM on Thursday, June 27th, 2019
I’m so sorry. Addictions are hell. They revisit. Sometimes they keep revisiting. I hate addictions. This is not you
SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 5:21 AM on Thursday, June 27th, 2019
@cancancrushed, have you read this thread in Off Topic? https://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=638710&AP=101
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
Odonna ( member #38401) posted at 6:59 AM on Thursday, June 27th, 2019
hopefull77 ( member #43221) posted at 12:39 PM on Thursday, June 27th, 2019
me-BS him-WS
" I will not define myself by what went wrong yesterday when I can draw upon Life and Love right now."
somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 10:31 PM on Friday, June 28th, 2019
..thanks for asking..
I'll PM you, if that's ok!!??
smy 
trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think! Me 77 Her 74 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!
nightowl1975 ( member #32212) posted at 6:42 AM on Saturday, June 29th, 2019
What a testament to the destruction that infidelity and lies bring to our lives. It makes me incredibly sad that Skan’s final days were consumed with this bullshit. She deserved so much more. I have no doubt that her blood pressure issues were exacerbated by the continued betrayal she lived with. Let this be a wake-up call to all of us who continue to live with repeated betrayal, hoping against all odds that *this time*, it’ll somehow be different. It’s a tragedy that she spent the last decade of her life being lied to and betrayed. What a colossal waste. 😢
Me: 44
Ex: 52
D Day: 4/2010
Divorced: 7/2010
Emotionalhell ( member #39902) posted at 2:01 PM on Sunday, June 30th, 2019
((((Hugs))) so sorry. It is his brokenness not yours.
I haven’t been touched in years bc WH is angers that I told OBS. Faked ED till the truth came out. what a lonely feeling to live with someone that wants to be a partner in every other sense... I’m so sorry you are going through this. This should be a joyous time of your life. Not dealing with someone’s screwed up thinking.
Me BS x2. 50ish Divorced WH #1. IHS with wayward #2 Dday #1 Oct. 2014Dday # 2 August 2018. Dday #3 December 17th.
Hope2B ( member #40474) posted at 9:29 AM on Monday, July 1st, 2019
Based on what Skan heartbreakingly wrote on both 4/29 and on 5/2, and then she passed on 6/10/2019, and agreeing with nightowl1975, I can only think that sometimes a post or two on other recent Skan-related threads just doesn't have the full picture or all the info, and yes, it seems that WH is just that, a WH. Nightowl1975, I feel these words of yours, about lying and betrayal, to the depth of my being,along with a core of sadness at Skan's passing.
In 2017, and not 2018 or 2019, Skan wrote: "Life is very good, right now." There was such hope in that statement, and yet what Skan wrote recently in this very thread takes us into the reality of her last days, trying to figure things out for herself in light of her recent discovery of her WH's recidivism and the very clear deal breaker that WH brought into her life again.
DDay: Feb. 25, 2013Trickle Truth/DDays: Sept 10, 11, 13, 15 (2013)
somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 6:50 PM on Tuesday, July 2nd, 2019
..that's why I bumped this thread..and didn't post on the other 'skan' thread till later.
smy
[This message edited by somanyyears at 9:27 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday)]
trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think! Me 77 Her 74 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 2:17 PM on Friday, July 5th, 2019
It's so sad that Skan had to re-visit her husband's infidelity again. And to die shortly after. It does make you wonder what was really going on. How she was truly feeling. Certainly, life was not good.
She is missed.
Failure is success if we learn from it.
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