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Scoobydoo ( member #70007) posted at 10:02 AM on Friday, May 24th, 2019
Bluelady,
Have you spoken to his friends? His attitude is unquestionably selfish, but is there any chance he's going through something that he needs space for?
I'm not saying its right, just wondering if it could be work? family? that has him reacting this way.
stay strong
Toooo many Dday's over 27 yrs,
Separated from Scooby 'Dum' 19/08/2019
Before you diagnose yourself with depression, or low self esteem,
First make sure you are not surrounded by an Asshole/s.
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 12:35 PM on Friday, May 24th, 2019
Based on my experience he’s cheated or cheating.
MIA for long periods of time
Moody and non-communicative after he’s away and missing shoes he was with someone else and is mad he has to come home b/c the “someone else” is more fun and where he wants to be
He offers up stupid excuses when questioned where he was
His friends are questionable
You cannot make the cheater stop cheating. You can only control your reaction or response to the cheating
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
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