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twisted ( member #8873) posted at 4:33 PM on Thursday, July 25th, 2019
I am a little concerned OBS might do something to my wife.
My fWW was concerned to. Self preservation kicks in after the fact and exposure. Her concerns about my pain, or the damage I was prepared to do to the AP suddenly became secondary. That speaks volumes about her character and mindset, IMO.
I told her, she took the risks and at least should have known the consequences.
It helps to drive home the point.
"Hey, does this rag smell like chloroform to you?
landclark ( member #70659) posted at 12:32 AM on Friday, July 26th, 2019
Landclark - did you hurt OBS...or was it the actions of the wayward spouses?
This is a good point and a good way to look at it. Thank you!
Me: BW Him: WH (GuiltAndShame) Dday 05/19/19 TT through AugustOne child together, 3 stepchildrenTogether 13.5 years, married 12.5
First EA 4 months into marriage. Last ended 05/19/19. *ETA, contd an ea after dday for 2 yrs.
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