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longsadstory1952 ( member #29048) posted at 1:37 PM on Friday, December 6th, 2019
We all have stories about stuff like this. Over the years I was friends with two couples where the wife was flirty and crossed the line a lot. They were good looking attention seekers and Obviously had inner demons. Shirt version is that they both made their husbands miserable for years and both marriages ended in acrimonious divorces. One was caught by her daughter screwing a guy in her car. You get the picture. Some people can't be helped. Trust your gut on this
BeyondRage ( member #71328) posted at 8:53 PM on Friday, December 6th, 2019
Gamer,
Only thing wrong with what you are doing is you have no fucking idea of the truth other than what she told you.
No one should be telling you to r or D but what you need to do is know what the truth is and she is not going to tell you any more than you already know.
That is the reason you are still in limbo and no matter how many times you have sex with her or hang out with her that is not changing.
Me- 49M
WW- 48F
Kids- 23,21,20,18 all female
https://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=640592
Buster123 ( member #65551) posted at 4:44 PM on Saturday, December 7th, 2019
I agree with BR, but IMHO if you decide to R, at least have her give you a written timeline of the A(s?) and that she will be taking a polygraph, also she should goto IC to find out her "whys", whatever made her do the things she did is still there and has not been dealt with, if you decide to D, ignore all of the above and just move on.
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