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Justsomeguy (original poster member #65583) posted at 6:37 PM on Sunday, December 1st, 2019
Just a quick update if anyone cares. I feel like I've rounded a corner a couple of weeks ago. Not sure if it is me or the meds or both, but I feel better. Funny thing, just a I felt better and was feeling good about being alone, a romantic friend contacted me. We had a tremendous, and I mean tremendous connection, but could not make it work due to my circumstances and some of hers. Well, now 18 months out and I am a different place both physically and mentally.
We decided to touch base just to see how each other was doing, and all of the feelings returned. We are well matched, not perfect, but well. Taking it slow though. Tough dating at my stage of life.baby steps.
I'm an oulier in my positions.
Me:57 STBXWW:55 DD#1: false confession of EA Dec. 2016. False R for a year.DD#2: confessed to year long PA Dec. 2 2017 (was about to be outed)Called it off and filed. Denied having an affair in court papers.
Divorced
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 6:53 PM on Sunday, December 1st, 2019
Great update and smart to go slow. But you are seeing the rays of sunshine and that’s important. There will still be gray days... but there is light.
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
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