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KingofNothing ( member #71775) posted at 9:04 PM on Monday, October 21st, 2019
Poor baby! And on top of everything else you want him to be humble and honest?!?! How's he going to get his precious ego kibbles and pretend things aren't that bad? How can he be forced to look at himself? How can he figure out a way to keep doing what he's been doing now that you are on to him?
Well said, Chaos!
Rex Nihilo, the King of Nothing
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“If you’re going through hell, keep going. Just please stop screaming, it’s not good for morale.”
— Winston Churchill
BS 3 DDays/Attempted R, it failed. In a better place
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 9:08 PM on Monday, October 21st, 2019
IDGAF what he wants. He doesn't get to call the shots.
Chaos nailed it.
You’re not supposed to be supporting HIM. HE is supposed to be supporting YOU!!!!!!!!.
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
Skoochnski (original poster member #71884) posted at 9:08 PM on Monday, October 21st, 2019
@Chaos Off topic but I just had to tell you that I love your “Princess Bride” inspired post script! 🤗
ME: 45 WH-47 Dday09-07-19 (our anniversary) Dday #2 11/12/19- Admitted to PA with AP #1 AP#1 2005 former COW- 6 Mo. EA/PA . AP#2- 27 year old former COW- EA, sexting. AP #3-24 year old current COW (he’s her supervisor) EA, sexting, plans to meet for PA
NotInMyLife ( member #67728) posted at 9:28 PM on Monday, October 21st, 2019
He wants me to start counseling before he’ll take another step in transparency.
He has it backwards. He should have read Linda MacDonald's book How to Help Your Spouse Heal from your Affair.
Although he did agree to changing his phone number after I broke down and cried.
But he didn't actually do it, did he? He is now in a mode of saying anything he can to shut you down.
Stop talking to you cheating husband right now He's made it clear he's doesn't want to take responsibility for his cheating.Rip his safety net out from under him right now and see a lawyer. Don't threaten to see a lawyer, do it. Once you have a realistic view of what that would mean for you, tell him he better come up with a better plan for addressing the damage he's done because you will not wait for it to happen again.
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