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Amilliondreams (original poster member #69387) posted at 5:43 PM on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2019
So I took my daughters to the new Frozen movie and was struck deep by the song the next right thing. Its basically a song of codependency and loss of a relationship due to someone else's actions with a smidgeon of attempted hope as you are forced to change and become stronger. One part thinks it's should be our SI theme song another hates that this theme is everywhere.
layla1234 ( member #68851) posted at 5:45 PM on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2019
Childrens movies are so profound...
Married: 5-15-11
3 kids: ages 6, 3, and baby born in Sept.
D-day of EA with married COW:7-18-18
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rebplay ( member #59205) posted at 5:49 PM on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2019
Things like that really strike deep. Don’t know if I want to hear it, id probably cry. And wow, kids movies can have some deep stuff.
IHatePickingName ( member #70740) posted at 5:58 PM on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2019
That phrasing and explanation really struck me too. I love it.
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Skadu ( member #62708) posted at 11:57 PM on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2019
I mentioned in another thread the underlying theme of the movie is future choices not being bound by past mistakes. It feels very topical.
LifeDestroyer ( member #71163) posted at 12:33 AM on Wednesday, December 4th, 2019
I thought the same when I heard it. I had to look up the lyrics. They're good at making kid movies really hit adults.
Maybe today can be a good day, and if today can be a good day, then maybe tomorrow can be too.
We might be broken and imperfect, but we still have worth and value.
As hard as it is to feel pain, it's much harder to feel nothing.
UneedToSmile ( member #72111) posted at 12:42 AM on Wednesday, December 4th, 2019
I thought the same! I sat right in that theater and bawled!🤷♀️
Me: BS 42 years old
Him: Lying cheating narcissistic prick 43 years old
Married for 18 yrs, together for 20 total
Dday: August 19 2019
Divorced: June 12 2020
Amilliondreams (original poster member #69387) posted at 1:52 AM on Wednesday, December 4th, 2019
The crazy part is that Anna has no desire to change. It's just thrust upon her when she literally finds herself alone as opposed to alone in a crowded home. As all of us can hide in our "lives" until DDay and then we are forced through the changes that come. We didn't want or ask for them. But at the very least there is that disney "reward " system that the rest of us dont always get- she gets a title bump. I refuse to acknowledge the "husband" as a reward because that just cycles back to feeding her codependency.
Yes I banter Disney as though it's important to life. 
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