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nekonamida ( member #42956) posted at 9:28 PM on Friday, December 13th, 2019
Ugh, it's really low to use SI as a sounding board to convince you of his lies instead of taking the advice to heart. Stay the course, layla!
WhoTheBleep ( member #49504) posted at 9:39 PM on Friday, December 13th, 2019
No, it's never been OK with me. I am filing after the new year. This whole marriage was a lie and I deserve so much better.
Attagirl!!! Yes you do! (((Layla)))
And this from Chili:
finally realized I had all I needed to know after probably discovering just the tip of the iceberg. Getting more details wasn't going to change my path.
I guess I hated the idea that he had info I wasn't privy to, but that was a pride thing for me, not a game changer. Once I stopped tormenting myself by trying to put all the puzzle pieces together, a good chunk of my anxiety (and acute pain) went away immediately
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Exactly this for me, too. I just let go. It was euphoric.
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I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural
layla1234 (original poster member #68851) posted at 12:38 AM on Saturday, December 14th, 2019
He had a thing for her our whole marriage, but didn't have an affair until 2018. Riiiight...
Married: 5-15-11
3 kids: ages 6, 3, and baby born in Sept.
D-day of EA with married COW:7-18-18
So much missing info from my story. I'm too exhausted to add it all. Divorce process started.
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