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Toughlove1 ( new member #72832) posted at 8:50 PM on Saturday, February 22nd, 2020
My wh and I had this amazing deal that we each get to travel a week or two a year alone, because we had kids and demanding jobs, so it was a nice breather to vacation and see the world. Everyone was like " wow, amazing you guys trust each other" and im like " you kidding?! My h would never cheat" we have kids, and a marriage, maybe not perfect, but loving. Jokes on me. Every single trip he took, he met the OW. Every time a different city, sharing pictures of the amazing sceneries. On the last trip, he by mistake shared a picture of her naked in the bathtub at the hotel. Funny thing is that at first I thought he was at a photography museum and took the picture. It was very artistic. Then, I noticed his reflection in the faucet.
Crazily enough we're in R...
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Wh 39
Mwa 38
1 year e/p affair mostly long distance.
Dday Jan 2019 by receiving a picture not meant for my eyes.
Attempting R since.
Walkingthewire ( member #69084) posted at 11:02 PM on Sunday, February 23rd, 2020
The one and only time he left to travel for work is when he had his A. The one thing I asked him not to do was go fuck around. Keep his dick in his pants. But he couldn’t do that. So guess who doesn’t travel for work anymore?
I already told him I’m done if he does it again.
He’s in a completely different position now with the same company so he doesn’t have to travel anymore. Unless it’s a long term assignment which we go too in that case.
For the record; I never thought he’d be capable of doing it. I HAD 100% trust in him to be faithful and honest. 
Jokes on me I guess.
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Married 18 yearsBS (me) 37WH 38. 13year old boy, 9 year old girl (Idiopathic Pulmonary Hemosiderosis)A Sept 2018 (while he was overseas)D-Day Dec 9 2018Working towards R
HardKnocks ( member #70957) posted at 11:35 PM on Sunday, February 23rd, 2020
Yes. WS travels quite frequently. His first affair 17 years ago was with a sales rep he met at a booth, continued for months after he came home.
Just learned a few days ago that he actually took current AP on 2 business trips. Still managed to do the Facetime, check-ins, show the bed, etc. with me. They always find a way. If I decide to R, which I doubt, the hardest thing would be wondering about what he's doing on these trips. Taking AP on those trips was the lowest of the low. I doubt I can forgive or forget that.
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