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Darkness Falls ( member #27879) posted at 12:37 AM on Tuesday, April 14th, 2020
Sorry, WhatsRight. 
Married -> I cheated -> We divorced -> We remarried -> Had two kids -> Now we’re miserable again
Staying together for the kids
D-day 2010
cocoplus5nuts ( member #45796) posted at 3:55 PM on Tuesday, April 14th, 2020
This thread has taken a bit of a turn.
I’ll see your “1 year” and raise you 7 years.
Are you ok with that? Is that because your H is I'll, or is it something else? If it's because he's I'll, do you think things would be different if he were healthy?
cocoplus5nuts ( member #45796) posted at 10:32 PM on Tuesday, April 14th, 2020
DF, I wanted to send you a PM, but you're at your limit. Would you mind freeing up some space so I could?
Darkness Falls ( member #27879) posted at 11:10 PM on Tuesday, April 14th, 2020
Try now, coco. 
Married -> I cheated -> We divorced -> We remarried -> Had two kids -> Now we’re miserable again
Staying together for the kids
D-day 2010
WS is an Addict ( member #34223) posted at 12:35 AM on Wednesday, April 15th, 2020
I’ve always wondered what it would be like to be with a normal (non-sex addicted) man. When I show up naked, put on sexy lingerie, etc. he just looks right through me because he can’t process sex and love simultaneously. His brain is permanently fried in that regard. We are good friends and he has done a lot of work to be a good partner in other ways, but when I see challenges like this, I grieve for a “normal” marriage where my husband desires me. I’m 37
[This message edited by WS is an Addict at 6:36 PM, April 14th (Tuesday)]
Me: 37 Him: 36 (SA)
DDAY: 12/14/11
dday #2: 11/4/15 (3 month relapse)
Together 17 ys, Married 11 ys, WS in recovery 8 ys.
Expecting our first child in May
You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.
Bobbi_sue ( member #10347) posted at 6:43 PM on Thursday, April 16th, 2020
I think, for the most part, men and women experience the naked body differently.
I think I'll have to agree here. I'm 61 and my H takes any chance he can get to look and if I give him some free looks, he is ecstatic. But he often makes the claim, this is not fair!
He admits what looking at me does to him but also acknowledges that my reaction to him is "put your clothes on!" 
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