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 HFSSC (original poster member #33338) posted at 12:40 PM on Thursday, November 5th, 2020

Well, they are climbing out from under their bridges and showing up everywhere, aren’t they?

Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.

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DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 1:11 PM on Thursday, November 5th, 2020

Here at SI or just generally everywhere???

Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.

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BigBlueEyes ( member #71441) posted at 1:34 PM on Thursday, November 5th, 2020

Can someone fill me in...I’m confused 🤷‍♀️

Ok I googled just to be sure it’s what I thought it was!

People actually do this on an infidelity site?

Me- BW, 47
Multi Dday's,
DB A's x 2 BFF
Multi ONS's, Online shit.
Serial cheat, Abuser,
D 18.02.20
Stay strong, just because it’s hard today, doesn’t mean that next week it won’t get easier!!

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 HFSSC (original poster member #33338) posted at 1:44 PM on Thursday, November 5th, 2020

Yep. I’ve spotted two this morning. 🙄

Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.

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DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 1:47 PM on Thursday, November 5th, 2020

HFSSC

You've got good eyes. I've looked but dont see what you have lol.

Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.

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BraveSirRobin ( member #69242) posted at 1:53 PM on Thursday, November 5th, 2020

I think the competition is stiff out there on the political sites. Everyone is already triggered, so the less skilled trolls can't get people's attention. Eventually they get frustrated that they aren't good enough to swim with the big fish, and they start looking for smaller ponds.

WW/BW

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thatbpguy ( member #58540) posted at 4:07 PM on Thursday, November 5th, 2020

Mostly in the JFO section.

ME: BH Her: WW DDay 1, R; DDay 2, R; DDay 3, I left; Divorced Remarried to a wonderful woman

"There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind." C.S. Lewis

As a dog returns to his vomit, so a fool repeats his folly...

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DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 4:22 PM on Thursday, November 5th, 2020

Mostly in the JFO section

Ohhhhhh. I dont typically go in there.

Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.

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bookworm19 ( member #54871) posted at 4:37 PM on Thursday, November 5th, 2020

I have no troll radar, I don't spot them, but I do wonder why would anybody do that, they must be really bored, I guess. What should we watch for to spot them? What are the red flags for trolls, I'm just wondering.

English is not my language, sorry for mistakes and funny words...

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 HFSSC (original poster member #33338) posted at 5:17 PM on Thursday, November 5th, 2020

For me, if there are an abundance of salacious details offered, especially coupled with what seems to be an atypical emotional reaction I will usually raise my eyebrows.

I will sometimes pm a mod with my suspicions if my spidey senses are really pinging, lol. Usually I'm just bemused and don't say anything. I said to someone else this morning, infidelity is hard, and I don't wish it on anyone. But really, how sad and pathetic must one's life be to find amusement in trolling this site? SMH

Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.

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HellFire ( member #59305) posted at 5:24 PM on Thursday, November 5th, 2020

Mostly in the JFO section

But sometimes they also pretend to wear the WS hat! And a BS hat! For some reason, they enjoy that! If you pay attention, it's easy to see!

*Note the excessive use of the "!"!!

[This message edited by HellFire at 12:30 PM, November 5th (Thursday)]

But you are what you did
And I'll forget you, but I'll never forgive
The smallest man who ever lived..

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TX1995 ( member #58175) posted at 5:35 PM on Thursday, November 5th, 2020

Perhaps they are getting overwhelmed with Election trolling and want to spice it up with posts here. I saw the Wayward one.

I'm the BS. WH had an EA/PA with a cOW. DDay was 4/17. Working on R. Married 15 years and together 20 at DDay.
DDay #2 and #3 6/19. Grew a conscience and admitted a full blown physical affair.
Current and forever status is reconciling. I don't

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99problems ( member #59373) posted at 10:25 PM on Thursday, November 5th, 2020

Ok, I just saw both those posts!

Who uses an exclamation point on every, single, sentence!

It's really weird and annoying!

Seriously though, what could you possibly be gaining by trolling people on this website?

I have wondered how many of the jfo posts are made-up, some of them just don't seem believable.

Got me a new forum name!<BR />Formerly Idiotmcstupid.<BR />I am divorced, so not as much of an idiot now- 4/15/21,

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million pieces ( member #27539) posted at 11:03 PM on Thursday, November 5th, 2020

I used to belong to a fertility website, there were trolls there also. Crazy, people pretending to want to be pregnant, being pregnant, it was really sad. I could see how trying to get pregnant (if that was truly the case) could make you do some crazy things, but here??? I'm not sure why anyone would want to troll this site.

Me - 52 D-Day 2/5/10, separated 3 wks later, Divorced 11/15/11!!!!

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DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 11:18 PM on Thursday, November 5th, 2020

I'm not sure why anyone would want to troll this site.

Attention

A cheater wanting to get under the skin of betrayed as a cheap thrill.

Who knows ...

They be sick people

[This message edited by DragnHeart at 5:18 PM, November 5th (Thursday)]

Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.

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bookworm19 ( member #54871) posted at 7:08 AM on Friday, November 6th, 2020

Thank you all for the explanation. English is not my 1st language and sometimes I miss some nuances...

English is not my language, sorry for mistakes and funny words...

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SI Staff ( Moderator #10) posted at 5:47 PM on Friday, November 6th, 2020

Please refrain from calling out members as trolls. If you're wrong, it makes them feel unwelcome and less likely to return. If you're right, it makes it easier for them to cover their tracks which makes it harder for us to keep them out. If you see something questionable, tell someone on Staff.

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