BackfromtheStorm ( member #86900) posted at 7:53 PM on Tuesday, January 13th, 2026
I haven’t got the strength to see him upset and he knows that. I said i need space but then he will have a full on mental breakdown and then for some reason i feel bad. I feel like he is using my kindness as weakness and also he is saying he has a porn addiction. It does appear he does but it also feels like a slap in the face. As he has only admitted things when found out, I’m devastated and don’t know what to do. He swears he is going to change and get therapy, give me access to his bank accounts and location, but i don’t know how i will get past it. We have grown up together and i don’t know what my life looks like without him. Is there a chance it could work or will it eat away at me?
Any advice would be appreciated, sorry if i have included too much detail here. Thank you to anyone who replies to me i really appreciate it ❤️
He does have the strength to see you upset and ruin your life with betrayal.
Serial cheating.
As others told you already, check for STD, protect yourself emotionally and be prepared to make the best decision for your emotions and sanity.
He lies you about everything, the confessions were just cornered truths. That's looking like someone who has zero remorse and intends to persist in his way no matter if you know or hurt.
He does not respect you or your feelings at all if that's the case.
You are welcome to send me a PM if you think I can help you. I respond when I can.
