Sorry if this is the wrong board, im just so devastated.
Short version WH had an EA last year with work colleague (i have posted on reconciling a few times since)
Since the reconciling decision was made in july, he has done nothing but disrespect me, which got worse, shown me he dosent value me, put her feelings first,continued to interact with ow in chats and started going on work socials with her present again , and caused numerous rows about going. Despite me feeling upset and not wanting him to go for obvious reasons. There has been many, many red flags since March time that hes still in touch with ow but he has denied. The whole situation has destroyed me emotionally and made me an insecure shell.
Fast forward to now hes now saying he wants to leave and cant cope with my child's mental health issues, and ive agreed theres no trust there at all and everything hes doing so its all screwed. 10 years down the drain due to him, a homewrecker and his behaviour. Am I right in thinking she will be waiting In the wings and it will all come out eventually and to prepare myself for it. He says theres no one else, they all say that!!! Im so devastated its come to this, at least I know i tried and am a good person, he dosent care 💔💔
He wants to stay friends and be there for me, he should have been there for me in the first place 💔
[This message edited by Kittycatkitty at 10:49 PM, Monday, June 1st]
