Revpab (original poster new member #87662) posted at 4:51 PM on Monday, August 10th, 2026
You're exactly right on validation. She was constantly receiving praise, validation and emotional support from this guy and which she said I didn't provide for her.
Letmebefrank ( member #86994) posted at 6:19 PM on Monday, August 10th, 2026
She was constantly receiving praise, validation and emotional support from this guy and which she said I didn't provide for her
Even if this were true, it does not justify her affair. She had a hundred different options. She could have talked to you. Asked for marriage counseling. She could have divorced you. But instead she chose, repeatedly, to seek these things from AP. She chose to lie and betray.
She really needs to be in therapy to figure out why she is like that and why she chose to handle it the way she did.
