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YHGTBKM posted 9/11/2018 17:08 PM

I was told by my lovely ex-wife today, that she was quite happy with her life and being married to me, and if I only hadn't invaded her privacy, I would never had found out because she had no intention of leaving me.

It was only sex you know!

GoldenR posted 9/11/2018 17:23 PM

How dare you want exclusivity with your wife! You meddler, you!

Hotdog posted 9/11/2018 17:29 PM

You were her gravy train! Why would she leave you. lol!

There is seriously mentally wrong with your exWW.

How are you and your daughter doing? How is her relationship with her mother?

Tigersrule77 posted 9/11/2018 17:52 PM

Once again, the whole thing was your fault. I hope you never forget that.

If you were looking for any more evidence that you made the right decision, I would say she just gave it to you.

Dyokemm posted 9/11/2018 18:04 PM

LMAO......your ex’s last ‘insight’ is bonkers hilarious.

If I was in your spot, I don’t think I could have refrained from making some smart assed remark like:

“Really? You were that happy?......Because I have never been happier since I got rid of your serial cheating ass.....Guess that just shows we never really were on the same page in life.”

But then again....I’m a dick.....

So undoubtedly best for you to not stir things up with her crazy by engaging.

TimSC posted 9/11/2018 20:26 PM

If you had not invaded her privacy and found out about her infidelity you would have continued to fund all her (an his) fun vacations together.

How could you spoil her fun?

wordsofwisdom posted 9/11/2018 20:32 PM

I was told by my lovely ex-wife today, that she was quite happy with her life and being married to me
I hope you have recorded this convo. It might help you when she is back to the mania phase trying to sue you.

Western posted 9/11/2018 21:20 PM

God help you. Thank God you have stepped forward and controlled your destiny. Many here don't and sadly suffer. You were 'the man' from day 1. Dispatch her completely from your life.

I hate that line "I never had any intentions of leaving'. If you banged babes and told her 'hey chill, I never had any intention of leaving' or told multiple women how much you loved them, what would her response have been ?

This heathen is out of your life almost completely. Finish the job. Let her rot

OrdinaryDude posted 9/11/2018 21:57 PM

Some people are just dumb as a box of rocks, and unfortunately we often end up married to them.

Buster123 posted 9/11/2018 22:33 PM

Unbelievable, so as long as she was able to keep banging other men and you didn't know about it everything should have been great, how dare you find out about her serial cheating and MFM ! what was your response to her ridiculous statement and what could she possible counter with ?

HopefulJourney posted 9/11/2018 23:41 PM

I wish they had like buttons on here, some of these comments crack me up! I had a fleeting moment of feeling pity for your ex-wife.

SCARLETT94 posted 9/12/2018 05:46 AM

Just read this whole thread. You did a great job getting out of infidelity while protecting your daughter at the same time.
But I gotta ask..... How in the hell were you able to make the condo part of the settlement but still prohibit her from selling it!?

Mad props to you because I've seen so many people get screwed in a divorce by the cheating spouse!

Jduff posted 9/12/2018 12:47 PM

YHGTBKM, just wanted to ask about this from early in your journey out infidelity -

I spoke to her friends, some of whom were culpable in helping her cover up this affair that I knew what they have done. I informed their husbands what has been happening and the degree in they have been assisting my STBEXW. They were disgusted that their wives were facilitating the affair and some even wondered if "if it can happen to you", why not me?

Just curious as to what has been the fallout with her friends and their husbands? Have any of their wives been discovered to be also participating in their own infidelities? From my personal experience and from reading stories here, it's like once you find one roach you know there's a nest of them somewhere.

Shockedmom posted 9/12/2018 15:49 PM

I would have just scratched my head and strolled away. She has developed a serious personality disorder that has left her with no empathy. True narcissist.
Continue on with your happier life.

TimSC posted 10/29/2018 12:56 PM

YHGTBKM,

Any updates? How are you and your daughter doing?

I can't even begin to suggest a response to your XW's comment.

"Ex-wife" - is that title official now?

AbandonedGuy posted 10/29/2018 13:52 PM

Youre a strong man for understanding that reconciliation is futile. Its amazing how easily some people can deceive, and how easily we ourselves can be deceived when were not expecting our closest loved one to stab us in the back.

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