Allusions!
MrKate has Dissociative Identity Disorder, which means his brain is currently "split" into four different MrKate's. (Sometimes 8.)
It used to be called multiple personality disorder, but Hollywood made some rather stupid films about it that do not represent what it is AT ALL.
It just means (warning: gross oversimplication about to occur) that he has some memory gaps and depending on level of stress, reverts to younger versions of himself. It is a spectrum disorder, sort of like autism. We all dissociate - like daydream, drive and can't remember how we got home, etc...but it is a survival skill our brains have in order to survive extreme trauma. The abuse "isn't happening to them", so it is ok to still live in this house and feel 'safe'.
Anyway, the ring had the initials, Y.M.I., for his screen name here, and the three personalities known at the time, You, Me, I.
I loved it and its meaning.
Now, I told him I was sad about losing it, and that it meant i must be healing from the a BUT he was so deep in his own depression that he just sort of said, aw that's too bad.
Holy hell...this R is not for the weak! Now, I didn't kill him. Considered it briefly, maybe, but he was deep, deep in bad place and I *really* should have 'read the room'...but i kind of wanted to have this nice moment and boom...he was gone. I really am to blame in this situation, unfortunately. Owning my own shit is annoying.
He left me a lovely note this morning from his younger self. Cute picture and all.
Hugs Jesusismyanchor and Devastated! It does get better as time and work push forward!
Want2BeHappyAgain- can we please just be friends IRL now? Please?!
Squirrel!