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hopeful18 (original poster member #19234) posted at 4:19 AM on Saturday, January 13th, 2018
I have been getting a lot of headaches recently. I have had migraines for most of my adult life but they have been worse lately. Anyway, went to a specialist and need a bunch of tests and she put me on new medicine. Wh seems genuinely panicked. He is trying to down play the concern for my sake. But I can tell that he is really worried it is something serious. It's all nice that he cares--but part of me feels like asking why he cares so much about me now? Ugh. Pre A I would never have thought that and appreciated his concern.
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Greeneyesbluezy ( member #58158) posted at 4:32 AM on Saturday, January 13th, 2018
Hopeful18,
I’m concerned, too.
You can appreciate his concern, even while you want to throw up in your mouth.
You don’t have to let him know you appreciate his concern , though. Unless you want to.
Waywards tend to give mixed signals. It’s infuriating.
Praying tests are all negative.🙏🏻
Stop right there, I already don't give a fuck.
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 5:19 AM on Saturday, January 13th, 2018
More concern for you here! Hoping it all works our great!
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
hopeful18 (original poster member #19234) posted at 2:58 PM on Saturday, January 13th, 2018
Thanks for the concern! Much appreciated!
Jesusismyanchor ( member #58708) posted at 1:15 AM on Sunday, January 14th, 2018
I have felt the same. When my H had shown concern for my health I just didn't get it since he hurt me so badly and risked my health. I don't antes do say the same and did once. He just hung his head and walked away at the time. I guess it is a good thing it is just perplexing. I'm glad he cares at the end of the day though.
Jeremiah 29:11- For I know the plans I have for you, plans to give you hope and a future
Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 1:27 AM on Sunday, January 14th, 2018
My WH has been overly concerned about mine since DDay. He noticed that I've lost weight since DDay. He's never mentioned anything about my weight in 25 years and now he notices. He notices when I have panic attacks when I trigger. He told me his biggest fear is that I will actually have a heart attack. He is frustrated because he knows he caused this and there isn't anything he can do about it.
BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades-2 adult children. Multiple DDays w/same LAP until I told OBS 2018- Cease & Desist sent spring 2021 "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"
Hopeful30 ( member #44618) posted at 2:18 AM on Sunday, January 14th, 2018
Please make sure if they haven’t already that they schedule you for an MRI. Not a CAT scan. For migraines you should be seeing a neurologist.
Keep us updated.
BS: Me
In reconciliation.
I edit for spelling and clarity
"Do or do not, there is no try." - Yoda
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