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tiredofcrying59 (original poster member #56180) posted at 12:53 AM on Saturday, February 9th, 2019
Just wanted to update for a few people here who might remember me and a few who have been kind enough to message me to see how it's going.
Our D is final. I am receiving adequate support, an additional amount for property equalization, the majority of the 401K, and I'm in the house. I just got my realtors license and have signed on with a company that I also have a good friend working there. I start Monday. I've been dating, nothing serious. Just looking for a person who will be a friend and I can do stuff with. And for sex. I think I found the right guy for now. I'll probably never remarry, I just don't feel the need to at my age, etc. We'll see.
I started a ukulele group of people that we get together and jam one night a week, I volunteer a day every couple weeks at the local hospital, and I'm painting again.
All in all, I'm finding me, I've crawled out of my shell and being more open with people. I may be alone but my friends and fam have been and continue to be awesome. I have my brief moments of feeling hurt/angry about exhole and what he did, but I'm working on letting it go. He only moved out 7/1/18, so I'm sure some time will help.
Hope everyone is doing well!
BW
Me-59
Him-57
M-33 yrs, not that I "celebrate" it
D-day-10/30/16 2mo.PA w/COW attempting R
new news- like a 5 year A w/COW, no longer attempting R. What am I, an idiot?
Getting on with life, without him.
tiredofcrying59 (original poster member #56180) posted at 12:55 AM on Saturday, February 9th, 2019
Also wanted to say, did anyone see that promotion at a zoo where you can name a cockroach after your ex, and then the zoo will feed it to a meerkat for Valentines day???
It probably shouldn't, but that made me laugh and laugh. 
BW
Me-59
Him-57
M-33 yrs, not that I "celebrate" it
D-day-10/30/16 2mo.PA w/COW attempting R
new news- like a 5 year A w/COW, no longer attempting R. What am I, an idiot?
Getting on with life, without him.
digitaldrifter ( member #50161) posted at 2:57 AM on Saturday, February 9th, 2019
Why oh why would anyone put a poor, defenseless cockroach in that situation. I mean, being named after a WS? I can't think of very many horrors on par with that.
Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 3:03 AM on Saturday, February 9th, 2019
Great update!
Onward and upward!
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
sassylee ( member #45766) posted at 5:09 AM on Saturday, February 9th, 2019
My daughter contacted them and named a cockroach after her ex bf. She had trouble deciding which one!
My R(eformed)WH had a 5 month EA in 2012
In my 7th year of R
“LOVE is a commitment, not an emotion. It is a conscious act of a covenant of unconditional love. It is a mindset and a thought process.” - BigHeart2018’s Professor
deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 6:28 PM on Saturday, February 9th, 2019
Love your update!! Keep chugging along.
Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 7:06 PM on Saturday, February 9th, 2019
Great update— very inspiring. And yes, there is a cockroach named after my ex that will be fed to a meerkat :-). I couldn’t resist!
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
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