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My update
tiredofcrying59 posted 2/8/2019 18:53 PM
Just wanted to update for a few people here who might remember me and a few who have been kind enough to message me to see how it's going.
Our D is final. I am receiving adequate support, an additional amount for property equalization, the majority of the 401K, and I'm in the house. I just got my realtors license and have signed on with a company that I also have a good friend working there. I start Monday. I've been dating, nothing serious. Just looking for a person who will be a friend and I can do stuff with. And for sex. I think I found the right guy for now. I'll probably never remarry, I just don't feel the need to at my age, etc. We'll see.
I started a ukulele group of people that we get together and jam one night a week, I volunteer a day every couple weeks at the local hospital, and I'm painting again.
All in all, I'm finding me, I've crawled out of my shell and being more open with people. I may be alone but my friends and fam have been and continue to be awesome. I have my brief moments of feeling hurt/angry about exhole and what he did, but I'm working on letting it go. He only moved out 7/1/18, so I'm sure some time will help.
Hope everyone is doing well!
tiredofcrying59 posted 2/8/2019 18:55 PM
Also wanted to say, did anyone see that promotion at a zoo where you can name a cockroach after your ex, and then the zoo will feed it to a meerkat for Valentines day???
It probably shouldn't, but that made me laugh and laugh. 
digitaldrifter posted 2/8/2019 20:57 PM
Why oh why would anyone put a poor, defenseless cockroach in that situation. I mean, being named after a WS? I can't think of very many horrors on par with that.
Phoenix1 posted 2/8/2019 21:03 PM
Great update!
Onward and upward!
sassylee posted 2/8/2019 23:09 PM
My daughter contacted them and named a cockroach after her ex bf. She had trouble deciding which one!
deena04 posted 2/9/2019 12:28 PM
Love your update!! Keep chugging along.
BearlyBreathing posted 2/9/2019 13:06 PM
Great update— very inspiring. And yes, there is a cockroach named after my ex that will be fed to a meerkat :-). I couldn’t resist!