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Butforthegrace posted 12/18/2019 21:06 PM

Their lifestyle works for them and until it infringed on me all the power to them.

They're Russians. They choose a life in which they do dozens of shots of Patron every night. Somehow, they manage to function and appear to have fun doing that.

Some bystanders might think that what they do looks like so much fun that, even if intellectually they know it's bad for them, they decide to give it a try. Then they wind up unconscious, face down, in their own foyer, covered in their own vomit. Not so much fun.

Marauder posted 12/20/2019 06:22 AM

@BeyondRage

Her husband was there but obviously not wanting to be and stayed for some reason as far away from me as he could get and still be in the same zip code.Not sure why.

Come on man, you know exactly why he stayed the hell away from you.

Like he thought i was going to physically confront him which was never going to happen.

Ask yourself why, supposedly your wife had no contact with this guy, right? Why would he think you might be angry at him or want to confront him?

WhyteDynamite posted 12/20/2019 07:50 AM

I mean, the husband knows about the affair and he doesn't know anyone else at the party. What do you want from him?

"Hey BR, nice to meet you. Heard about your wife's exploits behind your back. That sucks! Well good catching up, catch ya next time."

If i were the husband, that situation is awkward af and I'm staying faaaaar away. Not bc i feel guilty or anything. Just because he's in an open relationship doesn't mean he likes liars and cheaters

Marauder posted 12/20/2019 10:35 AM

mean he likes liars and cheaters

Good one, especially since they're not just into "open relationship" but "hot wifing". And staying clear of him is one thing, seemingly being afraid of him and a physical altercation is a completely different thing.

WhyteDynamite posted 12/20/2019 11:39 AM

Didn't know hotwifing involved lying and cheating. If the couple has it worked out there isn't cheating or lying happening, right? Im sure it can be part of it, but as we all know, it can happen in "happy" monogamous relationships too.

And who knows what Mrs. BR told the hotwife about BR."what out, my Bh is crazy.... Yada yada

Imagine HW saying to him, hey remember my colleague that was cheating on her husband even after I told her she should talk to him first? And you know how she got caught, right? Ya well now I'm not really allowed to talk to her anymore bc they think im an obstacle in their M. Make sure to steer clear of them at the xmas party.

Also this is soooo personal to BR who admitted hes good at staring people down and he's a big guy. I'd keep my eye on him.

I get you don't agree with their lifestyle, but i don't think the HW is the villan of this story

Marauder posted 12/20/2019 12:01 PM

Out of curiosity, as you into that lifestyle? Also, are you by any chance a WS?

WhyteDynamite posted 12/20/2019 12:17 PM

Nope im a BS. Not to t/j but my first love (age18-22) cheated on me and destroyed me, my 2nd ltr (23-26) says she never cheated but a "friend" who she swore she cut off contact with years prior was attending family events with her 2 days after the relationship ended so i think we can all draw the same conclusion from that. And most recently (28-36) i just caught her in too many lies, a bunch of gaslighting, etc that after years of trying i just couldn't take anymore. And in trying to save that relationship i ended up here. No definitive proof of infidelity but it got to the point where i didn't need or want proof.


I have only been in monogamous relationships and have never come close to stepping out on someone.

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