"You can survive this. Talk to others that have"

dfdxb posted 2/14/2020 01:30 AM

Its FOW wedding day today.

I'm imagining all the crazy ways I can ruin her big day

Crazy ideas welcome - I won't carry out any of them (maybe lol)

Hoping she gets diarrhea during the first dance

survrus posted 2/14/2020 05:54 AM

Give the groom a real present, a full timeline with details, links to polygraph PIs and divorce attys.

Advise him eyes ears open mouth shut and investigative techniques

survrus posted 2/14/2020 05:57 AM

Also tell him he can get an annulment if he is unaware of this significant fact.

Do you know of other affairs?

MalibuBayBreeze posted 2/14/2020 06:28 AM

Hoping she gets diarrhea during the first dance

Too bad it's not possible to have a few drops of Visine put into her champagne. That would cause a fecal incident worthy of rivaling the one in the film Bridesmaids.

TooManyCliches posted 2/14/2020 07:31 AM

Tastefully elegant cards at every chair with the details and timeline of the affair for all guests to read.

dfdxb posted 2/14/2020 07:59 AM

The Groom knows of the affair (saw them together but did not tell me). However who knows what story she told him. When I confronted her she told lie after lie about how they are just friends and she was confiding in him because she was going through a break up (same groom). However my WS told me the sordid details plus I heard the phone call and saw the phone bills confirming the time lines.

I'm hoping karma steps up today and everything goes wrong

Dorothy123 posted 2/14/2020 08:02 AM

Tastefully elegant cards at every chair with the details and timeline of the affair for all guests to read.

I like this idea.

HellFire posted 2/14/2020 08:04 AM

How do you know he knows about the affair?
Karma should come,today,in the form of the evidence you have,and a phone call from your husband.

The man deserves the full truth before he makes the worst mistake of his life.

Karma happens when good people do the right thing.

SlapNutsABingo posted 2/14/2020 14:12 PM

As Jana would say....

I hope it rains on you, maybe a little bit of lightning too..

cptprkchp posted 2/14/2020 15:32 PM

One time, I was in the wedding party as a bridesmaid and on the way to the wedding I saw another wedding that had just gotten done & they were starting to do pictures so I ran over saying “I AM SO SORRY I AM LATE!!” Everyone had a laugh and I was in a group photo with them.

As for her - I would go to her ceremony and just stand there - staring at her.

northeasternarea posted 2/14/2020 16:17 PM

How do you know he knows about the affair?
Karma should come,today,in the form of the evidence you have,and a phone call from your husband.

The man deserves the full truth before he makes the worst mistake of his life.

I didn't have to worry about this. The AP broke off her engagement for my WH and he still married her. He

dfdxb posted 2/15/2020 01:54 AM

How do you know he knows about the affair? 
Karma should come,today,in the form of the evidence you have,and a phone call from your husband.

I heard them talking about it when I was spying on WS. I had questioned my WS the night before asking if there was anything going on with someone. (I had already heard a short/questionable phonecall that day). Was hoping he'd come clean. He continued to lie.

Next day I listened in to a call of them discussing how I could possibly know anything and maybe it was the fiance who had told me something.