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Phoenix1 (original poster member #38928) posted at 7:54 PM on Sunday, June 21st, 2020
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DD and I were chatting not long ago, both wondering if Xhole and new wifey are still living around here. So, last night I took a little drive. Remember, he was living less than about five minutes from me. Not far, but down a road I don't ordinarily drive on.
Well, they are still living there (Xhole's prized truck parked there), but I busted out laughing. He must have had so many process servers knocking on the door that he is now resorting to placing a line of bright orange plastic cones (think construction cones) at the foot of the driveway, along with another "no trespassing" sign (still has the other that covers the house numbers). Because no one would bother to park before the cones and walk up to the house, of course.
I told DD that one evening I should go back and put a flower in one of the cones, just to jerk with his obvious paranoia. She said she would likely pee her pants if I did that. Challenge accepted!
We really just wanted to know if we need to still be watching for him in the area or not (to avoid contact). Was really hoping he had moved.
Mission accomplished and my evening ended with a wonderful laugh.
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fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 8:22 PM on Sunday, June 21st, 2020
Dear god he's a special one isn't he?
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 8:45 PM on Sunday, June 21st, 2020
I always love your posts about him.
What type of flower did you use?
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
Phoenix1 (original poster member #38928) posted at 8:57 PM on Sunday, June 21st, 2020
Haven't placed flower yet. Trying to decide what to actually place there. Maybe a really sparkly pinwheel with a smiley face?? 🤔
Oh, the possibilites!!
He really does make this too easy...
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 9:01 PM on Sunday, June 21st, 2020
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
ff4152 ( member #55404) posted at 9:50 PM on Sunday, June 21st, 2020
Phoenix1
Perhaps a picture of Roz from Monsters Inc with her tag line “I’m always watching you” should hang on one of the cones. It would be fun to see his head explode over that one!
Phoenix1 (original poster member #38928) posted at 10:04 PM on Sunday, June 21st, 2020
Perhaps a picture of Roz from Monsters Inc with her tag line “I’m always watching you” should hang on one of the cones.
I'm 99.9999% sure that would go right over his head. He wouldn't have a clue who Roz is, much less her tag line.
Hhhmmmm, this could be fun and I'm open to ideas!
Maybe a big pair of googly eyes stuck on the center cone facing the house.👀
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
Chili ( member #35503) posted at 2:02 AM on Monday, June 22nd, 2020
sure that would go right over his head.
Well that's not too difficult to do now, is it?
This could be very fun to ponder on a symbolic level - are you tied to the flower idea...? (Wheels turning here).
Flower symbolism:
Black-eyed Susan = Justice
Yellow Rose = Infidelity
Hydrangea = Vanity
Or just a simple sign that says: "Free."
2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Took off flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 4:22 AM on Monday, June 22nd, 2020
Phoenix1, I think if you decide to put a flower there, whatever kind you choose, it should be a dead one. Maybe one of those lovely roses with the head bent down on the stem and dried and black. What do you think he would take from that?
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
Phoenix1 (original poster member #38928) posted at 4:56 AM on Monday, June 22nd, 2020
Dead flower wouldn't register on his radar. He is not adept at picking up symbolism. Needs to be obvious. Think giving a clear message to a child. Literally.
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
Carissima ( member #66330) posted at 6:50 AM on Monday, June 22nd, 2020
A nice big prickly cactus....
Jeaniegirl ( member #6370) posted at 7:09 AM on Monday, June 22nd, 2020
OH please go with the Googly eyes -- looking at his house, of course!
"Because I deserve better"
Catwoman ( member #1330) posted at 9:16 PM on Monday, June 22nd, 2020
I would vote for cheap dollar store sparkly red white and blue pinwheels--one for each cone.
But I'm an evil old bat.
Cat
PS: I am a ninja-level flamingo placer. Just saying.
FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 27 and 24. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
"An erection does not count as personal growth."
jadedangel ( member #26979) posted at 9:20 PM on Monday, June 22nd, 2020
I am mean enough that I would put a positive pregnancy test on one of the cones and let him sweat that one out!
However, pinwheels with so much glitter that they could blind him would be great too!
Divorced 2007.
EXWH died 2011
Remarried 2018!
Notmine ( member #57221) posted at 12:32 PM on Tuesday, June 23rd, 2020
Print out pics of JUST eyes and tape them to each cone.
When you're going through hell, for God's sake, DON'T STOP!
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 3:57 PM on Tuesday, June 23rd, 2020
BEEP BEEP what an asswipe!!!!!!
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 10:50 PM on Tuesday, June 23rd, 2020
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
Phoenix1 (original poster member #38928) posted at 11:55 PM on Tuesday, June 23rd, 2020
Ditto, Chrys!
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
Bigger ( Attaché #8354) posted at 11:59 PM on Tuesday, June 23rd, 2020
Print out notices of repossession and paste one on each of the cones.
"If, therefore, any be unhappy, let him remember that he is unhappy by reason of himself alone." Epictetus
Chili ( member #35503) posted at 12:05 AM on Wednesday, June 24th, 2020
I still think someone taking said cones because they thought they were free would be hysterical.
The dark humor, brilliance, wit, and plain old sarcasm around here is the best and a huge part of what got me through those dark days.
Phoenix - you must let us know if you actually do get all Ninja.
2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Took off flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett
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