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Finally leaving my wife on the 1st Sept

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This0is0Fine posted 7/20/2020 16:19 PM

I seem to be giving this advice more and more.

You don't have to be reasonable. You can be selfish. Just accept it. If you STBXW says, "but you had sex with me, but this but that."

Just say back, "You're right, I'm not being reasonable. I don't have to be reasonable. I had sex with you because I wanted it and needed it then. I'm getting divorced from you because I want it and need it now. Your problems aren't my problems anymore. Goodbye."

Jorge posted 7/21/2020 01:01 AM

Iíve reall gone and screwed up
I just had sex with my wife it was purely physical
Now it will make it harder for Me to
Leave as she will bring up the fact that I screwed her
So there must be something still there.

Means nothing at all. Don't manipulate your own self.

NEWPERSON posted 7/21/2020 07:13 AM

I too had something similar during lockdown, we are human and we slip up -so it changes nothing and you can tell her that when she asks that it was physical and familiarity has a lot to do with why people slip up and that is why you are leaving to avoid further slips up.

NEWPERSON posted 7/21/2020 07:14 AM

In my case it happened in April and June I still left

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