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Hello my people - update with alcohol

TrustedHer posted 9/5/2020 00:09 AM

D&S is where I hang out, so this is where I will post. I am slightly inebriated. Those are often the best posts...

I moved 900 miles away from my adult children and because of 2020 I haven't seen them in ages. I came back for a visit and there's some weirdness.

I went to the piano bar where my son plays tonight. Because of Covid, they play for tips, not wages. They play outside. And there's only one pianist plus one drummer, not the normal 2 pianists plus 1 drummer.

There was a moderate crowd, and I was happy to see a lot of people hitting the tip jar. Unfortunately, he had to do Piano Man twice, but that's what happens when you do paid requests.

Right away I noticed that OM#1, who is well known to my children, was in the audience. During the break, I asked my son if OM#1 was good to him. That's all that matters, really. He's nothing to me after all this time.

Yes, he tips the boy well. So that's good. But also, I learned that he's now, all of a sudden, gay. He was sitting with his new boyfriend.

Yes. The first man who fucked my wife turned gay afterwards.

I can't actually explain this, but I find it humorous.

BearlyBreathing posted 9/5/2020 00:39 AM

Life takes funny turns.Glad hes nice to your DS. Stay well, TH!

homewrecked2011 posted 9/5/2020 02:31 AM

josiep posted 9/5/2020 11:38 AM

And so many men torment themselves thinking the OM is so much more manly than they are. Obviously, that's not the case.

REally glad to hear you got to see your kids again after too long apart. I hope the rest of your visit goes/went well.

99problems posted 9/5/2020 11:39 AM

Well thanks for the laugh, please post more often!

Chrysalis123 posted 9/5/2020 13:10 PM

Yes. The first man who fucked my wife turned gay afterwards.

Well, this is the first time I have read this twist on SI.
How do you feel about this new revelation? What is your son's response.

I am actually speechless...how odd this is.

JustLearning posted 9/5/2020 15:49 PM

Yes. The first man who fucked my wife turned gay afterwards.

I think what you meant to say was this:

I thought she treated ME badly. She treated her first AP so bad, he switched teams.

traicionada posted 9/6/2020 09:35 AM

Yes. The first man who fucked my wife turned gay afterwards.

I may or may not have spat coffee all over myself when I read this
BTW, yay! You were able to travel to see the boys

WhoTheBleep posted 9/6/2020 09:39 AM

This made my day!!

Justsomeguy posted 9/7/2020 21:54 PM

A gentle reminder...Being gay does not make one less manly, it just makes you gay. And one dosen't become gay. They are just gay, maybe conflicted or confused about identity due to other factors. I think the shaming is off side. No disrespect intended.

Westway posted 9/9/2020 16:46 PM

I'm glad your son at least appreciated you coming to see him.

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