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I did it! I moved out

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crazyblindsided posted 9/11/2020 11:42 AM

Well I canít believe it! I did it! Iím in my own place and it is so peaceful. The hardest part is not seeing the kids as much because I donít have internet yet, but getting there. I donít miss him and that really says a lot.

Of course he made the move as difficult as possible for me we even argued in front of the movers and I was crying for most of it, I am just happy itís all put behind me now.

Whatís interesting is I was never able to be alone when I was younger and feeling alone in the marriage all these years must have really done a number on me because I like being alone right now.

Kids love the new apartment! My son is already decorating his room the way he wants. Me and daughter have to share a room. Itís temporary until I can move back to my home when my renters move out.

Just canít believe I did it I have overcome my greatest fears.

[This message edited by crazyblindsided at 11:43 AM, September 11th (Friday)]

Lalagirl posted 9/11/2020 11:46 AM

I am SO proud of/happy for you!

Onward, SI sister! ((((HUGS))))

lieshurt posted 9/11/2020 15:49 PM

I'm so happy for you. (((hugs)))

I remember when I moved into my home after I divorced. The feeling of freedom and happiness was incredible. I still enjoy that feeling and it's been 17 years since I moved in.

maise posted 9/11/2020 15:58 PM

This is so amazing!!!! Congratulations on this move! Iím so happy for you and how far youíve come in this process!! I used to have a fear of being alone also, lately it doesnít seem to be present in me anymore either.

ZenMumWalking posted 9/11/2020 15:59 PM

FIST BUMP!!!!!!

DevastatedDee posted 9/11/2020 16:11 PM

YES GIRL!!! You made it!!! I am so happy to read this! Life is getting ready to get a whole lot better! I swear I was floating on air when I moved out. It's so great.

BearlyBreathing posted 9/11/2020 16:11 PM

ROCKSTAR!!!! So happy and proud for you!!

BrokenheartedUK posted 9/11/2020 16:57 PM

YAS!! So happy for you!!

leafields posted 9/11/2020 17:43 PM

Congrats! I was worried that he'd be physically abusive when it was time for you to move out. So glad to see your update.

You did it!

homewrecked2011 posted 9/11/2020 17:59 PM

Awesome!!!!!

Chili posted 9/11/2020 19:58 PM

Holy Crapola - you did it!!!! I know it was a long, hard road for you, so I hope you bask in the courage and strength it took you to stand up for yourself. What a landmark moment. Sending big huge kudos your way.

Ripped62 posted 9/11/2020 20:43 PM

Congratulations! 🌟🎊🎶🎉🏅

Way to overcome your fears! You are very strong.

(((crazyblindsided)))

May your needs be met and your dreams fulfilled in ways you never thought possible.

Chrysalis123 posted 9/11/2020 21:46 PM

Wow!!!! I am so happy ti read about this. You go girl!!

pinkpggy posted 9/11/2020 21:47 PM

Congrats!! ❤

skeetermooch posted 9/11/2020 22:29 PM

Woot Woot!
CBS, you did it!! You are free!!

I'm so happy for you!!

Charity411 posted 9/11/2020 22:40 PM

I'm standing in my living room applauding.

You figured it out. You were alone all along but putting up with a jerk. Being alone is nothing new. It's just way more pleasant. Good for you!

phmh posted 9/12/2020 10:36 AM

I have been secretly rooting for you to do this for the better part of a decade! So proud of and happy for you! I still remember all the different feelings I had after moving out. You may experience dips, but are on track for creating a life you will love!!!

J707 posted 9/12/2020 14:21 PM

Congratulations!! It's a new chapter. It took a little bit of adjusting not having my kids everyday. You'll adjust, trust me. I've even taken a day off here or there when they aren't here to do absolutely nothing (recharge) or to plan a solo adventure. This is your new chapter, enjoy the peace, yourself and your kids.

OwningItNow posted 9/12/2020 15:09 PM

Congratulations!!!!

crazyblindsided posted 9/13/2020 11:23 AM

Thank you so much! I am doing surprisingly well. I just needed to trust myself and the process and it all worked out. Really the hardest part was coming to the decision to leave and his harassment of me. He is leaving me alone thankfully and I am really enjoying being with myself and exploring my new life on my own.

Last night my daughter and her friend made Halloween cookies here and son was talking on his phone with friends until midnight. The kids are alright

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