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nowiknow23 (original poster member #33226) posted at 5:02 AM on Saturday, May 12th, 2012
ETA: If you're wondering what "The Bus" is all about? It's pretty simple. The Bus is for anyone who has been celibate for 6 months or more.
The Bus Riders may be out of action, but they're a rowdy and hilarious bunch. Come on in. They don't bite. Much. 
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Just shouting a "Marco" and hoping to hear a "Polo" or two. Nine months on the bus and no stops planned here.
Driver? Where the heck are we? 
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You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
timeforchange ( member #27454) posted at 6:11 AM on Saturday, May 12th, 2012
Not sure if 3.5 months qualifies for a seat????
If so ... "polo" said with a sigh
Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
DDay 1/19/10
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12
“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.”
marzipan ( member #28544) posted at 6:11 AM on Saturday, May 12th, 2012
Polo.
Closest I got was with Steve 15 months ago. But he was wiener-withholding. He would do everything BUT that (including things that IMHO should happen MUCH later) because "intercourse changes things." Unlike those other things??? 
Well then, there was Harry and his phone sex before he turned crazy. He was something else. Unfortunately I was a disappointment in that area. He tended to render me speechless, which killed the mood on his side.
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me--Mean Batshit Crazy Pottymouth
him-- Swampy the WH
divorce DONE!!!!
http://soulmateshmoopies.wordpress.com/
PART 16-- "You are Such a Good Mother"
Jen ( member #26584) posted at 6:24 AM on Saturday, May 12th, 2012
sigh ....
polo ....
Me former Booger Bear ...
https://youtu.be/1TcLw3TOIN8
Hand Me Down MatchBox 20
https://youtu.be/iFdOAyyn76M
Love Falls by HellYeah
devistatedmom ( member #24961) posted at 6:32 AM on Saturday, May 12th, 2012
Polo....until tomorrow....maybe?? 
BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.
WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 6:56 AM on Saturday, May 12th, 2012
Polo.
*sigh*
Pass the snacks, please..... if I have to ride the bus, I refuse to watch calories.
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
foreverempty ( member #34426) posted at 8:22 AM on Saturday, May 12th, 2012
Umm Polo, think I know what you mean 
5 1/2 months, although it seems much easier being on the bus not living with a WW than it was being on it when we were together.... That was far too frustrating for words!
VERY nervous about getting off it at present... In reality it's been a very long time!
Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 8:28 AM on Saturday, May 12th, 2012
Months? Y'all count months? People, please. I've got years & years on the damn bus. I have my own bench on the bus with my friggin' name engraved on it.
Months? Amateurs!
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
foreverempty ( member #34426) posted at 8:33 AM on Saturday, May 12th, 2012
Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.
risingfromashes ( member #3903) posted at 12:53 PM on Saturday, May 12th, 2012
I hear you Nature Girl! STBX left 3/10. There wasn't anything happening for at least a year before that!
It may be that I am the bus driver and this a permanent position. The benefits stink!
nowiknow23 (original poster member #33226) posted at 1:25 PM on Saturday, May 12th, 2012
Ah - my people! Welcome aboard, newbies. 
The bus may suck, but the company sure doesn't.
Where's our driver? Didn't Sad take over when gma resigned?
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
SouthernGal ( member #27315) posted at 1:27 PM on Saturday, May 12th, 2012
Polo. Damn.
I celebrate my 43rd b-day on the 24th of this month. And on the 24th of next month I celebrate the end of my 2nd (and start of my 3rd) year on the damn bus. Grrrrrrrr
Oh! But hey ... I brought margarita cupcakes made with real tequila! Enjoy!
BS (Me) XWH (him) M nearly 16 yrs
1 DD (teens)
D-day #1 12/09, #2 2/10
Divorced 10/6/10
better4me ( member #30341) posted at 1:34 PM on Saturday, May 12th, 2012
Polo
8 months on the bus here...
Marzi, our stories have a couple of common themes...4 weeks ago I got close, but no cigar
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!
Dreamboat ( member #10506) posted at 1:52 PM on Saturday, May 12th, 2012
Polo
I've been here so long I think I am officially a virgin again. I don't even want to think about how long or else I will cry!
And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine
turned123 ( member #33663) posted at 2:06 PM on Saturday, May 12th, 2012
dreamboat don't cry! 7 years...I have my own fleet!
me BS 48
her WW 45
married 15 years
divorced
3 wonderful but hurt kids
travels ( member #20334) posted at 2:07 PM on Saturday, May 12th, 2012
Polo
Officially revirginized. 
I'd move over to let someone else sit with me, but all the damn cob webs hold me down.
When one door closes, another door opens. It's the journey through the hallway that sucks.
"After a breakup, the loyal one stays single and deals with the damages until healed. The other one is already in another relationship."
macakipa ( member #33735) posted at 2:16 PM on Saturday, May 12th, 2012
Polo
5 months...yes I am a newbie...I hope these bench seats are comfortable...
M -25 years, T - 31 years, 4 children
Dday October 8, 2011 - Multiple PAs and ONs
Divorced 1-8-13
"When you give a lot of importance to someone in your life, you lose your importance in their life."
nowiknow23 (original poster member #33226) posted at 3:29 PM on Saturday, May 12th, 2012
Polo....until tomorrow....maybe??
Quiet everyone!
Devistatedmom? Is there something you wish to share with the bus?
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
devistatedmom ( member #24961) posted at 3:40 PM on Saturday, May 12th, 2012
Quiet everyone!
Devistatedmom? Is there something you wish to share with the bus?
Well, we will see. But I don't want to start a mutiny on the bus. I've enjoyed my seat here for the past 2 years...there's just this gent that would like to have me join him in his truck for a while....having dinner with him tonight.
BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.
WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.
WarehouseGuy ( member #6037) posted at 4:19 PM on Saturday, May 12th, 2012
Polo here too. 
This damn bus is getting crowded again----
Can we drive by the Grand Canyon? I've always wanted to see it in person. The view of it on the wheelchair commercial just doesn't get it.
WHG
If you see your ex with someone else don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.
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