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stupidstupidme (original poster member #11888) posted at 10:46 PM on Monday, May 6th, 2013
When do I get a break 
Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing. Use the pain as fuel, as a reminder of your strength
August Wilson
jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 10:47 PM on Monday, May 6th, 2013
Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
Crescita ( member #32616) posted at 11:30 PM on Monday, May 6th, 2013
(((ssm)))
Hang in there sweetie, good and bad things come in waves.
“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
stupidstupidme (original poster member #11888) posted at 12:15 AM on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013
Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing. Use the pain as fuel, as a reminder of your strength
August Wilson
weeping willow ( member #22800) posted at 12:19 AM on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013
((((SSM))))
I'm praying that things will be better for you very soon.
BW - me FWH - him
D Day - July 26, 2007
Married 40 years
jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 12:26 AM on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013
SSM... Talk to us if you can...
What's happened?
Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 12:35 AM on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013
(((ssm)))
Lean on us. We are here for you. Sending you strength and hope.
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 12:46 AM on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013
((Ssm))
You're in my thoughts. Take a deep breath.
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 12:54 AM on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013
(((((ssm))))) Holding you in my thoughts, honey.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
betrayedfriend ( member #19785) posted at 2:12 AM on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013
((SSM)) I don't know what's going on, and am hoping you can share if you are able so that we can better support you, but in the mean time, huge hugs, for you and yours and I'll add you to my prayer list. I hope whatever is going on can have a workable solution for you.
I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.
metamorphisis ( member #12041) posted at 2:16 AM on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013
((((((((((ssm)))))))))))
Talk to us when you're ready. We're here. 
Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.
stupidstupidme (original poster member #11888) posted at 2:31 AM on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013
My daughter. It started with our NC beach vaca last summer.
It's been a rough time. Thought we had gotten through the worst and things were on the upswing. They were... for almost six months.
Today, that all changed. She is gone from my home, and will remain so. Tough love is.... tough. Lots of pain and fear. Uncertainty... and idk... confusion. I just wish she didn't make the choice she did. Or even knowing it was much of a choice. I love her more than my life and I can't fix this for her. It's a horrible feeling
Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing. Use the pain as fuel, as a reminder of your strength
August Wilson
metamorphisis ( member #12041) posted at 2:35 AM on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013
((((((((SSM)))))))))
I'm sorry. I can't imagine how hard that is and I know it's not something you wanted to do 
I hope whatever it is isn't too serious to recover from and she learns from it
Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 3:46 AM on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 3:52 AM on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013
Ripley123 ( member #25277) posted at 4:01 AM on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013
I am so sorry. My daughter went thru a rough patch years ago but we survived it. I am sending you hugs, strength and prayers and feeling in my heart you will have a happy ending...
So let's roll the dice, one more time
Take a chance on love again tonight
Risk it all, lay it on the line
Let the skeletons fight for life
Tonight, hold on tight, as we collide -kid rock
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 11:07 AM on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 12:49 PM on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013
(((((SSM)))))
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 12:54 PM on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013
((SSM)) There is no bigger heartbreak than mamma heartbreak.
I hear your heart breaking mamma.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 2:23 PM on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013
Hugs, SSM.
We're here for you.
AJ's MOM
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
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