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Phoenix1 (original poster member #38928) posted at 1:54 AM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
Filed on August 23rd and the hearing was set today for October 19th! There was a delay due to some judicial conferences going on that backed up the docket a bit (only required a 30 day wait period). That will be 9 days shy of 7 months from final DDay.
The end is officially in sight now and I will finally have that parasite surgically removed permanently from my life!
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 1:56 AM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
How do people around here get their D's so quickly? 
I'm happy for you & jealous all at the same time.
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
Phoenix1 (original poster member #38928) posted at 2:10 AM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
I am just super lucky to live in a state that only requires a 30 day waiting period for uncontested dissolutions. THAT makes the difference.
POS waived his right to notice and appearance, so it will be interesting if he surfaces in any capacity (the info is public record in the court website)... I wouldn't put it past him, and I will be ready to celebrate and exhale that night if all goes well!
Sorry yours is dragging out NG...
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
Pass ( member #38122) posted at 2:15 AM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
I hear you NG. Here in Ontario, you have to be separated for a year before you can file. The whole thing often ends up taking a minimum of 18 months. I want to get away LONG before that!
Divorced the cheater and living my best life now.
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous.
PurpleBirch ( member #39170) posted at 2:20 AM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
I'm in Ontario too Pass. I told them that WH confessed to infidelity, so why couldn't I just go straight for divorce??? They said that on the chance he contests, I would need solid proof. Ugh. I would just like it to be done. Cheating is a deal-breaker for me for sure.
Me: BS (32)
Him: WH (31)
Married 3 years.
Confessed to PA April 21 2013.
DS (6), DS (18 months)
Aug 30 2013 He gives me back his ring with an ultimatum: "Get over it or get out".
Status: Done like dinner
Dawn58 ( member #37656) posted at 3:58 PM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
My mediation is set for Oct 30 - Dday was nov 25. Praying we come to an agreement, want to just move on with my life and be happy.
I got into the marriage, because I loved him. I got out of the marriage, because I love me.
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