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Update on husband and anesthesia

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 UnexpectedSong (original poster member #21761) posted at 4:09 AM on Tuesday, September 17th, 2013

So... H stayed with me the WHOLE time. The surgeon was able to talk to him while I was in recovery. Everything went great. He did go to his dinner, but I am well taken care of right now.

The general anesthesia was okay. I had my panic moment when I felt like I couldn't breathe in the oxygen mask. The anesthesiologist said, don't worry, you will feel tired soon. And I didn't even get there - I was just out and the next thing I knew, I was in recovery. Kinda creepy that chemicals are that strong and you just have to cede control as they do stuff on you.

H never showed any kind of impatience and he really was irritated that work pressured him to go to the dinner. I feel very loved. (And super sleepy - time to get some recovery rest.)

Thank you all for your support and prayers.

[This message edited by UnexpectedSong at 10:10 PM, September 16th (Monday)]

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wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 4:18 AM on Tuesday, September 17th, 2013

So glad everything went well and your H stayed with you the whole time.

Spedy recovery!

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knightsbff ( member #36853) posted at 4:21 AM on Tuesday, September 17th, 2013

I'm so glad things went well for you and that you are feeling loved and cared for.

I can totally understand where you were coming from as general anesthesia is my number one biggest fear. I have never had surgery and hope and pray I never need it. Get lots of rest. Best wishes for a full and speedy recovery.

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ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 4:42 AM on Tuesday, September 17th, 2013

Awwww...

(((Song)))

(Sorry, I couldn't help it! )

Feel better soon!

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Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 4:49 AM on Tuesday, September 17th, 2013

Great report! Sending good thoughts for your continued healing.

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uncertainone ( member #28108) posted at 4:58 AM on Tuesday, September 17th, 2013

Awesome, US. Glad you're ok!

(((US))

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authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 11:02 AM on Tuesday, September 17th, 2013

(((((US)))))

Glad it went well!

DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.

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SurprisinglyOkay ( member #36684) posted at 2:06 PM on Tuesday, September 17th, 2013

Happy to hear it went well. Surgery is scary!

Heal Quickly

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Joanh ( member #39146) posted at 2:26 PM on Tuesday, September 17th, 2013

That's so wonderful to hear. It's a wonderful place to be when feel the love. Especially when we have fears  heal fast 

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MissesJai ( member #24849) posted at 4:24 PM on Tuesday, September 17th, 2013

YAY! Glad you are doing well and that everything worked out with the hubs. Thanks for the update, Song. XO!

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Darkness Falls ( member #27879) posted at 4:35 PM on Tuesday, September 17th, 2013

I'm glad everything went well, both medically and with your H. I wish you good and quick healing from your procedure.

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aesir ( member #17210) posted at 7:27 PM on Tuesday, September 17th, 2013

Glad you are through the surgery and the scary part. Hope the rest of your recovery goes well too.

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 UnexpectedSong (original poster member #21761) posted at 2:35 AM on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013

Thank you, all. I feel loved at home and here.

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