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jo2love (original poster member #31528) posted at 10:51 PM on Sunday, November 3rd, 2013
My dad is having hernia surgery on Thursday. They said it should only take 20-30 minutes. He is such a nice, down to earth, always supportive person. I hate to see him in pain.
I would be grateful for any mojo or good thoughts.
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 10:58 PM on Sunday, November 3rd, 2013
Sending painless healing mojo!!
(((jo2love)))
Waiting4Daylite ( member #36213) posted at 11:00 PM on Sunday, November 3rd, 2013
Mojo coming your way! My WH had this done four years ago and he's fine.
jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 11:01 PM on Sunday, November 3rd, 2013
Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 11:02 PM on Sunday, November 3rd, 2013
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 11:03 PM on Sunday, November 3rd, 2013
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
mom of 2 ( member #11214) posted at 11:05 PM on Sunday, November 3rd, 2013
Positive thoughts coming to you, your dad, and your family! 
Me: BW
Divorced after 23 years of M thanks to XH's truth trickle.
Status: Recovering and healing. It's going to be a long hard road.
Update November 2013: It only took seven years but I finally turned a corner. :)
lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 11:27 PM on Sunday, November 3rd, 2013
Sending lots of mojo and healing thoughts!
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
weeping willow ( member #22800) posted at 12:23 AM on Monday, November 4th, 2013
Mojo and good thoughts sent to your dad. He sounds like an awesome guy!
BW - me FWH - him
D Day - July 26, 2007
Married 40 years
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 1:58 AM on Monday, November 4th, 2013
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 2:40 AM on Monday, November 4th, 2013
Sending your dad everything I've got. (((((jo & family)))))
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 3:19 AM on Monday, November 4th, 2013
(((Jo & Dad)))
All sorts of good thoughts headed to you honey 
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 3:22 AM on Monday, November 4th, 2013
Sending lots of mojo and healing thoughts his way!
Crushed1 ( member #6449) posted at 5:10 AM on Monday, November 4th, 2013
(((jo's Dad and family))) Mojo, good thoughts, and prayers for your Dad. My Dad had hernia surgery years ago and did fine! Hope for yours to do well also.
~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH
Lyonesse ( member #32943) posted at 5:13 AM on Monday, November 4th, 2013
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 6:37 AM on Monday, November 4th, 2013
He is such a nice, down to earth, always supportive person.
Well the apple doesn't fall far from the tree here, does it?
Sending good thoughts and mojo to you all. Will be keeping especially good thoughts on Thursday.
(((Jo)))
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
jo2love (original poster member #31528) posted at 2:17 PM on Monday, November 4th, 2013
I don't know anything about this type of surgery. Reading your words of past experience helped.
Thank you, everyone.
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 2:32 PM on Monday, November 4th, 2013
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
Gottagetthrough ( member #27325) posted at 4:38 PM on Monday, November 4th, 2013
positive thoughts for your dad! =)
jo2love (original poster member #31528) posted at 4:51 PM on Thursday, November 7th, 2013
Surgery went smoothly and my dad is in recovery. SI mojo is awesome! 
Thank you, everyone!
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