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Aubrie (original poster member #33886) posted at 3:32 PM on Friday, January 3rd, 2014
If you could whisper a prayer for my sister I would appreciate it.
She's in the process of losing her third baby in a year. 
Life is so unfair. 
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 3:35 PM on Friday, January 3rd, 2014
Keeping your sister in prayer.
betrayedfriend ( member #19785) posted at 3:45 PM on Friday, January 3rd, 2014
I am so sorry, your sister is in my prayers. Has she considered testing to see why this is happening? I've lost 4 babies and while testing didn't lead to any concrete answers, it revealed some possibilities. Please let your sister know that it's ok to grieve and breathe, this child is a very real part of her.
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Gottagetthrough ( member #27325) posted at 3:50 PM on Friday, January 3rd, 2014
Please let your sister know that it's ok to grieve and breathe, this child is a very real part of her.
so true.
Praying for your sister. I am so very sorry.
cass ( member #24261) posted at 3:50 PM on Friday, January 3rd, 2014
((((Aubrie's sister and angel baby))))
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Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 3:50 PM on Friday, January 3rd, 2014
I'm sorry.
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gonnabe2016 ( member #34823) posted at 3:53 PM on Friday, January 3rd, 2014
I'm so sorry.....
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
Aubrie (original poster member #33886) posted at 4:17 PM on Friday, January 3rd, 2014
I'm so angry.
Why her? Why did she have to inherit the fertility issues? Times like this I feel incredible guilt over the fact QS can just look at me and I get pregnant. That I didn't have complications carrying my babies. That we're "done" and he's been snipped. Guilt because I've always been held over her head. She feels she'll never be "as good" as me. (Thank you FOO)
And Mother, because of her lousy choices, is not a part of this process. My sister doesn't feel exactly safe or stable enough to call and "chat" with her about it all. So it's just me and my sister, working thru this together.
Oh Little Sister, my heart bleeds for you.
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne
Crescita ( member #32616) posted at 4:24 PM on Friday, January 3rd, 2014
So sorry
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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:30 PM on Friday, January 3rd, 2014
(((((sister, husband, and angel baby)))))
I'm so sorry, Aubrie.
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ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 4:33 PM on Friday, January 3rd, 2014
So very sad.
(((Aubrie & Sis)))
Sending prayers.
AJ's MOM
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gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 4:37 PM on Friday, January 3rd, 2014
I'm very sorry for your sister's loss Aubrie. I will keep her in my prayers.
I know what you mean. I had 5 kids without any trouble whatsoever but my one brother had to use IVF to get his beautiful daughters and my other brother's wife couldn't even get pregnant with IVF - 3 failed pregnancies. It just doesn't make sense and is not fair at all.
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 5:56 PM on Friday, January 3rd, 2014
(((Aubrie, Aubrie's sister, and family)))
I am so sorry. Sending hugs and prayers.
itainteasy ( member #31094) posted at 6:25 PM on Friday, January 3rd, 2014
Prayers sent...I'm so sorry for your sister, Aubrie.
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 6:33 PM on Friday, January 3rd, 2014
I am so sorry. Prayers being said.
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
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tryingagain74 ( member #33698) posted at 7:35 PM on Friday, January 3rd, 2014
Sending strength and positive thoughts to you both during this difficult time.
FBS; now happily liberated!
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Aubrie (original poster member #33886) posted at 7:42 PM on Friday, January 3rd, 2014
Thank you everyone.
We're in the waiting stage. She's passing fluid but that's the extent of it. She can't get in with her doctor till Tuesday.
*sigh*
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne
Jen ( member #26584) posted at 7:48 PM on Friday, January 3rd, 2014
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stroppy_wanadoo ( member #11224) posted at 8:15 PM on Friday, January 3rd, 2014
Prayers for your sister and for you, Aubrie.
Teach8 ( member #36521) posted at 8:21 PM on Friday, January 3rd, 2014
(((Aubrie's sister and family))). Sending strength and prayers. I'm so very sorry. I do know the pain she is feeling.
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