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careerlady (original poster member #16958) posted at 6:40 AM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
I know I haven't been around, been dealing with my DS's regression as well as the D paperwork and work.
BUT! We submitted the default judgement proposal again today! Hopefully the judge will accept it this time and we can hit the original dissolution date of 5/3! The Snake would be SOOO surprised to find himself divorced, hehe since he's been ignoring the whole process, including the revised financial disclosures served on him last week but sitting in his mail pile unopened.
If I got my judgement then I'd just have to work on evicting him.... 
Me (BS, 35); The Snake (WS, 36) 13yrs together; 1 baby boy (DOB 7/12)
Serial cheater-Multiple OWs, Multiple D-Days
D by default 5/3/14!
In house 8 mos, moved out 7/1!!!
Summary: http://youtu.be/iaysTVcounI
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 6:45 AM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
SO much mojo coming your way!
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
CheaterMagnet ( member #33581) posted at 7:22 AM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5
Gemini71 ( member #40115) posted at 1:49 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
Prayers and positive thoughts coming your way.
DSs 21, 16, 12
About my Ex:
IDK
IDC
IDGAF
Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014
norabird ( member #42092) posted at 4:42 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
Eventual eviction mojo 
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 4:48 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
Mojo on its way!!!!! Eviction mojo following.
Hugs,
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
one2ndchance ( member #14759) posted at 4:59 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
Wow...this is great, but I'm just wondering..is he just stupid or lazy or does he just think you won't go through with evicting him?
Married 26 years
DDay #1 2/2002
DDay #2 6/2012
Gave him his second chance and he blew it.
Divorce final: 9/9/2014
It's hard to see the road ahead if you're always looking in the rear view mirror.
IrishLass518 ( member #34373) posted at 8:21 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 12:41 AM on Saturday, April 26th, 2014
Eviction mojo. Can't you just have him arrested for trespassing once the d is final?
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
justinpaintoday ( member #42858) posted at 12:43 AM on Saturday, April 26th, 2014
I never realized you could be in this much pain and not be dying.
careerlady (original poster member #16958) posted at 3:39 AM on Saturday, April 26th, 2014
Thanks guys!
One2ndchance - yeah he's the ultimate narcissist. He doesn't think I'd ever leave him. He actually "threatened" me that if I divorce him there's no going back. That was our last discussion so he probably thinks he put me in my place 
Eviction mojo. Can't you just have him arrested for trespassing once the d is final?
Love it!!!!
Me (BS, 35); The Snake (WS, 36) 13yrs together; 1 baby boy (DOB 7/12)
Serial cheater-Multiple OWs, Multiple D-Days
D by default 5/3/14!
In house 8 mos, moved out 7/1!!!
Summary: http://youtu.be/iaysTVcounI
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 6:25 AM on Saturday, April 26th, 2014
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 7:34 AM on Saturday, April 26th, 2014
I'll join that mojo conga line.
Mojo!!
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
careerlady (original poster member #16958) posted at 7:29 AM on Thursday, May 1st, 2014
I saw on the court website that a judgement was filed!!! So looks like I got it! 
Now I just have to hope he doesn't get mad and appeal for the default to be set aside! Should I give him his eviction notice at the same time as the papers? I'm nervous about his temper and we do have a young toddler to raise...
Me (BS, 35); The Snake (WS, 36) 13yrs together; 1 baby boy (DOB 7/12)
Serial cheater-Multiple OWs, Multiple D-Days
D by default 5/3/14!
In house 8 mos, moved out 7/1!!!
Summary: http://youtu.be/iaysTVcounI
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 1:01 AM on Friday, May 2nd, 2014
I'd have the papers and eviction notice served at the same time, and I'd pay to have a professional do it. Preferably at work, late on a day when you've already had a locksmith come change the locks on all of the doors and have unplugged the garage door opener. If you feel kind, you might want to help him pack up his clothing too with some hefty bags on the sidewalk. But then, I'm known to be a cantankerous old bitch at times.
Congratulations!
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
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