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Superwoman day!

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 careerlady (original poster member #16958) posted at 8:31 AM on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014

Well it's late and I should be asleep but I keep thinking I had a superwoman day and wanted to post about it

-Got up at 7 with DS and fed him breakfast and played, out by 8:15 for doctor's appointment.

-Got back at 9:30 just in time for his Therapy session and team meeting till 12

-fed DS lunch then went to the courthouse in a looong line with DS on my hip to try and get CS garnished

- got back a bit after 2, took a nap with DS till almost 5

- 5-7 therapy, made DS a home cooked meal while participating

- 8 started bedtime routine with DS, put him to bed

- did the dishes and tidied the living room, wiped the kitchen down, paid bills

- exercised and then vacuumed and mopped

Of course a lot of my days off are crazy like this now. But I'm happy. Because I didn't have to clean up after Snake, soothe him, or argue with him about anything I did. I was just a single mom taking care of business.

Btw when I say I had a superwoman day it just means I heard this song in my head when I was getting tired :

http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-AphKUK8twg

Dedicating that to the real superwomen out there like NatureGirl....

Me (BS, 35); The Snake (WS, 36) 13yrs together; 1 baby boy (DOB 7/12)
Serial cheater-Multiple OWs, Multiple D-Days
D by default 5/3/14!
In house 8 mos, moved out 7/1!!!
Summary: http://youtu.be/iaysTVcounI

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BrighterFuture ( member #38914) posted at 10:43 AM on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014

Awesome

My day started at around 7am. Woke up, got myself ready for school, and my kids ready for daycare.

9 am - 2pm: Time spent in school and driving back and forth.

2 pm - 4pm: Picked my kids up from the daycare to the doctor (my kids have been sick)

4 pm - 5pm : Went to pick up prescriptions from Walmart.

5pm - 7 pm : Played with my kids.

7pm - 8pm: Made and ate dinner.

8pm - 9pm: Bathed my kids and got them ready for bed.

9pm - 10 pm: Cleaned up. Took a shower.

10pm - 12am: Study/SI

After midnight: Bedtime

Bravos to all the hardworking single mothers!

Me:30
Him:31
D-day:2/24/13 (I was 10 weeks pregnant at the time and DS was 15 months)
Status: Parted ways!

"If only I can fight just a little longer, I know it's gonna make me stronger" Jamie Grace-Holding on.

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hopefulfourus ( member #25204) posted at 11:56 AM on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014

Awesome superwoman!!

During the school year, my schedule-work and kids events- keep me going from 6 in the morning until sometimes late at night.

One thing that I am sure most of us can relate to--my STBX could NEVER do or keep up with a schedule like this.

Here's a big hug to all of us that do this on a daily basis!! You rock!

Me: BW. 40's
Him: WH POS. 40's
2 kids. DD16, DS14

Don't let my user name fool you...I am NOT hopeful for us at ALL!!

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Sleepingbeauty ( member #43792) posted at 2:19 PM on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014

The good days will become the norm!!!

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norabird ( member #42092) posted at 10:32 PM on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014

Awesome, CL

Sit. Feast on your life.

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AmSoDone ( member #43871) posted at 10:40 PM on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014

You are all awesome. I've BTDT and I do have a much easier life now(still work FT but so different) but I remember those days like they were yesterday.

Strong, brave, Superwomen all of you.

((((hugs)))

BP(me) 53
WP (scumbag) 55
On-off for 32 years
1DD
1 DGD
Too many D Days to count. Same with OW.

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