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 dfdxb (original poster member #72768) posted at 7:30 AM on Friday, February 14th, 2020

Its FOW wedding day today.

I'm imagining all the crazy ways I can ruin her big day

Crazy ideas welcome - I won't carry out any of them (maybe lol)

Hoping she gets diarrhea during the first dance

BW-dday Sept 12 2019
EA for 6 months
PA other women 12 months. (actually it's been years)
Filed for divorce
"Life is a balance between holding on, and letting go.." Rumi

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survrus ( member #67698) posted at 11:54 AM on Friday, February 14th, 2020

Give the groom a real present, a full timeline with details, links to polygraph PIs and divorce attys.

Advise him eyes ears open mouth shut and investigative techniques

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survrus ( member #67698) posted at 11:57 AM on Friday, February 14th, 2020

Also tell him he can get an annulment if he is unaware of this significant fact.

Do you know of other affairs?

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MalibuBayBreeze ( member #52124) posted at 12:28 PM on Friday, February 14th, 2020

Hoping she gets diarrhea during the first dance

Too bad it's not possible to have a few drops of Visine put into her champagne. That would cause a fecal incident worthy of rivaling the one in the film Bridesmaids.

A man or woman telling the truth doesn't mind being questioned.

A liar does.

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TooManyCliches ( member #72437) posted at 1:31 PM on Friday, February 14th, 2020

Tastefully elegant cards at every chair with the details and timeline of the affair for all guests to read.

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 dfdxb (original poster member #72768) posted at 1:59 PM on Friday, February 14th, 2020

The Groom knows of the affair (saw them together but did not tell me). However who knows what story she told him. When I confronted her she told lie after lie about how they are just friends and she was confiding in him because she was going through a break up (same groom). However my WS told me the sordid details plus I heard the phone call and saw the phone bills confirming the time lines.

I'm hoping karma steps up today and everything goes wrong

BW-dday Sept 12 2019
EA for 6 months
PA other women 12 months. (actually it's been years)
Filed for divorce
"Life is a balance between holding on, and letting go.." Rumi

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Dorothy123 ( member #53116) posted at 2:02 PM on Friday, February 14th, 2020

Tastefully elegant cards at every chair with the details and timeline of the affair for all guests to read.

I like this idea.

"I’ll get you my pretty, and your little dog too!" Wicked Witch of the West.

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HellFire ( member #59305) posted at 2:04 PM on Friday, February 14th, 2020

How do you know he knows about the affair?

Karma should come,today,in the form of the evidence you have,and a phone call from your husband.

The man deserves the full truth before he makes the worst mistake of his life.

Karma happens when good people do the right thing.

But you are what you did
And I'll forget you, but I'll never forgive
The smallest man who ever lived..

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SlapNutsABingo ( member #71353) posted at 8:12 PM on Friday, February 14th, 2020

As Jana would say....

I hope it rains on you, maybe a little bit of lightning too..

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cptprkchp ( member #11719) posted at 9:32 PM on Friday, February 14th, 2020

One time, I was in the wedding party as a bridesmaid and on the way to the wedding I saw another wedding that had just gotten done & they were starting to do pictures so I ran over saying “I AM SO SORRY I AM LATE!!” Everyone had a laugh and I was in a group photo with them.

As for her - I would go to her ceremony and just stand there - staring at her.

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northeasternarea ( member #43214) posted at 10:17 PM on Friday, February 14th, 2020

How do you know he knows about the affair?

Karma should come,today,in the form of the evidence you have,and a phone call from your husband.

The man deserves the full truth before he makes the worst mistake of his life.

I didn't have to worry about this. The AP broke off her engagement for my WH and he still married her. He

The only person you can change is yourself.

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 dfdxb (original poster member #72768) posted at 7:54 AM on Saturday, February 15th, 2020

How do you know he knows about the affair?

Karma should come,today,in the form of the evidence you have,and a phone call from your husband.

I heard them talking about it when I was spying on WS. I had questioned my WS the night before asking if there was anything going on with someone. (I had already heard a short/questionable phonecall that day). Was hoping he'd come clean. He continued to lie.

Next day I listened in to a call of them discussing how I could possibly know anything and maybe it was the fiance who had told me something.

BW-dday Sept 12 2019
EA for 6 months
PA other women 12 months. (actually it's been years)
Filed for divorce
"Life is a balance between holding on, and letting go.." Rumi

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