So for those who missed it, Exwh was chatting with a girl he liked in high school. Watched and listened, recognized the signs. Warned her BS#3 that my then WH and his wife were gonna have an affair. They did. Gave evidence. No one believed me. Got a divorce July 8th snd moved on.
Her 2nd husband shared how she cheated on #1 with him, she cheated on him (#2) with #1 and then she remarried #1 again.... making #1 and #3 the same guy.,,,, Then cheated on #3 with #2!! Follow that? But OF COURSE she couldn’t possibly cheat on 1/3 or #2.... I was obviously crazy. Ok whatever. Not my circus not my monkeys. I THINK #2 was the married teacher she was “dating” In high school and broke up his marriage.
#2 Calls me last night to tell me I wasn’t crazy, that his exww was asking for a divorce to be with my Exwh. He’s devastated. Told me he threw away 10 years of his life waiting on this chick. Wants my Ex’s phone number. um No. Told me he unblocked my number now cuz I’m not crazy and to keep his. Um again, I’m divorced, I only care about getting the house sold and I knew I was not crazy.
#3 paid 130,000 for a surrogate baby due any day now. Asked if she was getting the kid. Was told no. Not sure I believe that as she’s manipulated three men into all believing she’s gonna be with them, only. Thinking on it, don’t care. Exwh is a somewhat good dad and will treat the kid as his own. He has terrible boundaries but loves kids.
So, thinking I should be hurt that he’s ending up with his affair partner. I’m not. I go between laughing as she is used to lots of money and not working .... he has none, and “good for him, maybe he’ll finally be happy.” He lives in his brothers 2nd bedroom in a tiny basement apartment. She’s liking the drama now but once the reality sits in that he has no money, no ambition, and that yes he is wonderfully affectionate, he’s also an alcoholic and pot user. I don’t see this ending well and I just laugh. Guess I’m healing.
Thoughts ??? It just seems too comical to be real
Bought a new couch, popped the popcorn, now we wait for the fireworks, they shall be glorious!!