I am sure there are other people that did but I am wondering if anyone else did it completely alone? We didn’t tell any family, any friends. The job where it happened at was a second job and we weren’t close to anyone there so the day he had no contact with her, there was no contact with anyone else there. I just sometimes wonder if it would help me to be able to vent to a friend, which he has told me to do, but I have chose not to. I just would like to hear how it worked out for other people.
We had a situation the other night where we had to go back to the place he used to work, a medical facility, we planned it right because since he used to work there we can still see the schedule, but he ended up having to stay overnight running into the next shift. It wasn’t what we planned. We never saw the AP, but knowing she was there made me want to crawl out of my skin. The next morning a nurse came in that was one of her friends that he had worked with to discharge us and acted like she didn’t know him. Everyone on the overnight shift was so nice and accommodating and talked to me but this girl pretended he was a stranger. He always thought no one knew because it was a very short emotional text affair but this girl was her friend and wouldn’t even look at me and made sure when we walked out the AP wasn’t anywhere to be seen. She knew.
This is one of those times I wanted to call one of my girlfriends and scream and cry and ask if I was being completely unreasonable for my reaction. He told me I was not and he wanted out of there faster than I did but I still wanted to talk to someone else. I just haven’t brought myself to tell anyone about it. Anyone else?
This happened 10 days before our 20 year anniversary trip we are taking that I thought we were doing so great for and then BAM just throw all this shit in our face. Our mistake, we will go to a different town for a medical emergency next time.
[This message edited by Emotionalaffair24 at 6:34 AM, Monday, June 15th]
