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SCARLETT94 ( member #52566) posted at 4:35 AM on Friday, March 30th, 2018
Oh I hope he didn't do that
"Don't look back, you're not going that way" Ragnar Lothbrok
Bazinga! TBBT
Sassenach... Jamie Fraser
Western ( member #46653) posted at 12:52 PM on Friday, March 30th, 2018
Scarlett, when someone stops posting, it usually means that something bad has happened. Altercation, big fight, restraining order, or they made up and figured things out or something else.
A1 stopped posting and we found out about his wife. Betrayedsoulmate stopped posting and we found out he committed suicide.
When someone stops posting, I worry
CincyKid ( member #57948) posted at 3:06 PM on Friday, March 30th, 2018
Let's not kill off onetime yet. Things for him have just come to a hilt. He has a lot to deal with and coming here to provide updates is probably pretty low on the list. I wish him well and hope that things turn out in his favor. We'll always be here for him if he decides to come back. If he never comes back, I hope he finds happiness in life.
Betrayed, life over...
Life goes on...
Met sunshine girl, fell in love...
Reconnected with wonderful DD...
Married sunshine girl, happy as can be!!!
Western ( member #46653) posted at 3:14 PM on Friday, March 30th, 2018
I know that was cryptic Cincy.
I wish the best for Onetime and hope he comes back
SCARLETT94 ( member #52566) posted at 4:38 AM on Saturday, March 31st, 2018
I'm starting to get worried
"Don't look back, you're not going that way" Ragnar Lothbrok
Bazinga! TBBT
Sassenach... Jamie Fraser
MidnightRun ( member #59434) posted at 5:31 AM on Saturday, March 31st, 2018
I overlooked his mention of confronting OM. I hope he didn't.
2018MLMM ( member #63023) posted at 5:36 AM on Saturday, March 31st, 2018
Hope all is well
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Onetime (original poster new member #63164) posted at 9:54 PM on Saturday, March 31st, 2018
Hey all, sorry about delay, I will stop on later tonight, just out with kids enjoying weather and my next step, it all went down, I appreciate advice, just needed to lay low. Work got involved, so took time off to get head together, but slowly am
Thank you
Onetime out!!
SCARLETT94 ( member #52566) posted at 9:55 PM on Saturday, March 31st, 2018
Thank you!
I was worried about you. Take all the time you need 
"Don't look back, you're not going that way" Ragnar Lothbrok
Bazinga! TBBT
Sassenach... Jamie Fraser
Marz ( member #60895) posted at 10:02 PM on Saturday, March 31st, 2018
just out with kids enjoying weather
That's your main priority. Good for you.
2018MLMM ( member #63023) posted at 10:36 PM on Saturday, March 31st, 2018
OneTime so glad to see that you posted.
All we really care about is that you ok. We were worried.
Hang in there, stay strong, and remember that it is just putting one foot in front of the other.
seadoug105 ( member #62312) posted at 10:42 PM on Saturday, March 31st, 2018
Thank God you are alright!
Spend time with your kids hold them close!
I hope things went a smoothly as possible!
Western ( member #46653) posted at 3:40 AM on Sunday, April 1st, 2018
BJE49 ( member #53622) posted at 11:59 AM on Sunday, April 1st, 2018
Phew! So happy to hear from you Onetime, when you are ready to give us an update! Well until then
Regards BJE49
2018MLMM ( member #63023) posted at 12:57 PM on Sunday, April 1st, 2018
OneTime,
I recently had my own DDay. I’ve found this place to be much more helpful post-DDay
Good luck and stay strong
manfromlamancha ( member #47894) posted at 1:39 PM on Tuesday, April 3rd, 2018
Hey all, sorry about delay, I will stop on later tonight, just out with kids enjoying weather and my next step, it all went down, I appreciate advice, just needed to lay low. Work got involved, so took time off to get head together, but slowly am
So how did it go down OneTime? You were going to update - I must say I am curious as to how it was handled.
seadoug105 ( member #62312) posted at 1:39 PM on Wednesday, April 4th, 2018
Onetime!
Hope all is good, you are safe, and your kids are well!
MrMagnolia ( member #63147) posted at 1:56 PM on Wednesday, April 4th, 2018
Man, I had a bad feeling when I saw you hadn't responded to your thread in a while. You don't owe us any kind of response to anything if you do not want to, of course. However, I want you to know that just seeing how you're still out there made this morning a little brighter for me. I am sure there's much to sort through with the likely chaotic fallout of something like this and how it may well impact your career.
We are here for you if you need it. Hope you and the kids are doing well.
The only hope you have is to accept the fact that your marriage is already dead. The sooner you accept that, the sooner you’ll be able to function as you are supposed to function: without mercy, without fear, without remorse.
2018MLMM ( member #63023) posted at 7:40 PM on Thursday, April 5th, 2018
Hope you are coming here and reading these messages of support. Hang in there! You will get through this
LivingWithPain ( member #60578) posted at 8:27 PM on Thursday, April 5th, 2018
Me - 39; WW - 36
Married 13 years
1 Adopted Son age 18
Still married and living together: attempting to reconcile.
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