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It's Too Late - Carole King (and more), but that's all I came up with right now.

BTW, good ideas! This is only my 2nd post, and it's easier than anything else I'd write. I may add more later.

BTW, (oh I forgot who did it and I can't see it while I type this,.....sorry)

your idea "I'm Looking Through You" by the Beatles was perfect!

Forgiveness by Sarah McLachlan:

"And you ask for forgiveness, you're asking too much;

I have sheltered my heart in a place you can't touch;

I don't believe when you tell me your love is real

'Cause you don't know much about heaven, boy, if you have to hurt to feel

Every time I see you I can't help but look away

All along I had believed everything you'd say

When I look now I know I've seen your face before

I don't want your deceiving smile standing at my door.

I've been dealing with what I believe are numerous emotional affairs over our 33-year marriage (and at least one PA). This song says it all for me.

I'm still standing - Elton John

You could never know what it's like

Your blood, like winter, freezes just like ice

And there's a cold, lonely light that shines from you

You'll wind up like the wreck you hide behind that mask you use

And did you think this fool could never win?

Well look at me, I'm a-coming back again

I got a taste of love in a simple way

And if you need to know while I'm still standing

You just fade away

Don't you know I'm still standing better than I ever did?

Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid

And I'm still standing after all this time

Picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind

I'm still standing (yeah, yeah, yeah)

I'm still standing (yeah, yeah, yeah)

Once, I never coulda hoped to win

You starting down the road, leaving me again

The threats you made were meant to cut me down

And if our love was just a circus, you'd be a clown by now

You know I'm still standing better than I ever did ...

Love Lies Bleeding - Basia

Lost in the Echo - Linkin Park

3 Libras - A Perfect Circle

Never is a Promise - Fiona Apple

The Hard Way Every Time - Jim Croce

My Heart Lied - Five Finger Death Punch

The Contrarian - A Perfect Circle

How Dare You - Basia

The Humbling River - Puscifer

The Pot - Tool

In Pieces - Linkin Park

Love Lies - Michael McDonald

Dead Memories - Slipknot

Re-Arranged - Limp Bizkit

From Now On - Basia

On My Own - Michael McDonald

The Outsider - A Perfect Circle

Lover's Cross - Jim Croce

King of Anything - Sara Bareilles

The Devil in I - Slipknot

A Minor Variation - Billy Joel

The Remedy - Puscifer

Not the Doctor - Alanis Morissette

Duality - Slipknot

I caught this song randomly on an independent radio station in Denver this weekend. Never heard of this guy before but I googled the song and listened to it about a dozen times.

Maybe You’re Not The One

By David Starr

David Starr and Robby Hecht

David Starr Music, ASCAP and Old Man Music, SESAC

If I can’t make you feel my love

Then what am I supposed to do

I’ve tried tough and I’ve tried tender

And nothing’s getting through

You’re high on your reflection

And you’re down on all we've done

If I can’t make you feel my love

Maybe you’re not the one

If you won’t let me hold you

Then how do we get close

Liyin’ here with empty arms

As my disillusion grows

Another lonely night with you...waiting for the sun

If I can’t make you feel my love

Maybe you’re not the one

I share my deepest dreams with you

You just turn away

I’ve been chasing you so long

I’m running out of things to say

but I keep hoping we still might find a way

V3

If I can’t make you feel my love

then what am I supposed to do

I’ve tried honesty and anger

And honey, nothing’s getting through

The damage that you’re doing now

Can never be undone

If I can’t make you feel my love

Maybe you’re not the one

Another vote for I'm Still Standing

Can't beat Elton John!